#328 | “Why Can’t I Just Handle What Everyone Else Can?” A Common Thought for Highly Sensitive People (and What to Do About It)
Release Date: 12/29/2025
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Have you ever felt ashamed for needing earplugs just to get through a store—like you're broken for reacting to things others seem to handle with ease?
If you're a highly sensitive person, everyday environments like Walmart or Target can feel like battlegrounds. But the real struggle isn't just the sensory overload—it's the invisible weight of shame and self-judgment that follows you around. This episode dives into why your sensitivity isn’t the problem… but what you believe about it is.
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Learn why HSP tools like earplugs can quietly trigger shame—and how to stop apologizing for using them.
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Discover the true cost of comparing yourself to others who seem to “handle more” and how it drains your energy.
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Shift your mindset from seeing your sensitivity as a flaw to embracing it as a strength that deserves protection, not hiding.
Press play now to learn how to stop shrinking your life out of shame and start living on your own terms with confidence, clarity, and peace.
Todd Smith, founder of True Inner Freedom
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