Ep. 69 A Conversation About Long-Term Polyamorous Relationships and Conscious Uncoupling with Carrie Jeroslow
Release Date: 08/23/2023
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Hey everyone! Welcome to today’s episode of the Wright Conversations Podcast! For today’s episode, I’m joined by Carrie Jeroslow to talk about navigating conscious uncoupling, how to cultivate compassion, and learning from long-term polyamorous relationships. We also talk about Carrie’s coming out experience to her family and kids, why she chose to introduce the relationships to her kids, and making anything work through healing.
Let’s delve in!
In this Episode You’ll Learn:
- [07:10] A bit about Carrie.
- [09:40] Carrie’s conscious uncoupling.
- [15:00] Should we break up?
- [16:54] How to approach the conversation.
- [22:42] Navigating the process of conscious uncoupling.
- [24:33] How to cultivate compassion.
- [27:33] Why is self-compassion so difficult?
- [29:48] Carrie’s experience with long-term polyamorous relationships.
- [35:42] Challenges of long-term polyamorous relationships.
- [36:56] The coming out experience.
- [43:10] Why involve the kids?
- [45:42] Why tell kids about the nature of the relationship?
- [50:08] Carrie’s words of wisdom.
Quotes:
- “Conscious uncoupling is not exclusive to nonmonogamy.” [08:30]
- “Be compassionate with yourself and with your other person.” [24:26]
- “Compassion is allowing yourself to be where you’re at.” [25:43]
- “You can’t have gratitude until you have self-acceptance.” [29:06]
- “There’s a significance in that relationship that I want my kids to be a part of.” [46:25]
Connect with Carrie Jeroslow
Website: www.carriejeroslow.com.
Instagram: @carrie_jeroslow_author_coach.
TikTok: @carriejeroslow.
Twitter: @CarrieJeroslow.
LinkedIn: Carrie Jeroslow.
YouTube: Carrie Jeroslow.
Podcast: Relationship Diversity Podcast.
Connect with Rachel Wright
Website: https://rachelwrightnyc.com
Instagram: @thewright_rachel
Twitter: @thewrightrachel
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Why Do They Always Break Up With Me? By Carrie Jeroslow.
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