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EP15: Who TF Did I Raise?!! Parent Abuse Awareness

Release Date: 10/03/2024

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

In this episode, Kendall Lasha delves into the dangers posed by male-centered women, particularly mothers and daughters, who prioritize men at the expense of themselves and other women. She explores how this mindset can lead to harmful behaviors and societal norms that undermine women's safety and empowerment. Through personal experiences and insights, Kendall emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and being very cautious when dealing with these type of women. 💚Grab Both of My Books “Moving Forward: A Guide to Finding Peace & Yourself, With or Without...

EP30: You May Be Grown, But You’re Not My Equal

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary: In this episode, Kendall Lasha discusses the growing mindset among young adults and teenagers who believe they are equal to their parents simply because they have reached adulthood. She explores the spiritual and ethical equality of all humans while emphasizing the sacred, non-peer role of parents. The conversation delves into the cultural and relational hierarchies that have existed for thousands of years, the impact of pop psychology on social media, and the importance of respecting the parental role. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of mutual respect and the challenges that...

EP29: Are They Really Breaking Generational Curses?

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Join me as I unpack the complex topic of adult kids claiming that they are breaking generational curses. Are they truly breaking them, or merely creating new ones? This episode challenges the narrative and explores what genuine healing looks like and what generational curse breaking really looks like. Please visit my website for more information and also subscribe to my newsletter: 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. 🔗...

EP28: OUR KIDS ARE OUR KRYPTONITE

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this episode of 'Mum's True Tea,' Kendall Lasha discusses the often unspoken reality of child-to-parent abuse, drawing parallels between the struggles of motherhood and the concept of kryptonite from the Superman narrative. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing when children become toxic and the need for mothers to prioritize their own mental health and well-being. Through personal anecdotes and statistics, Kendall advocates for breaking the silence surrounding this issue and encourages mothers to seek support and empowerment. Takeaways Moms often need to take a breather for...

EP27: What in the Fresh Hell? The Absurd Reasons Behind No Contact

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this episode of Mum’s True Tea, host Kendall Lasha discusses the absurd reasons adult children give for going no contact with their parents, particularly mothers. She critiques the influence of social media and modern therapy on parenting narratives, emphasizing that affection and involvement are often misinterpreted as control or abuse. Lasha argues that the blame for adult children's struggles is unfairly placed on parents, who often provided love and support. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing the emotional tools parents provide and the need to reclaim...

EP26: Abused By My Own Child

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this conversation, Kendall Lasha addresses the often-overlooked issue of parental abuse, discussing the emotional, verbal, and physical abuse that mothers may endure from their children. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing this abuse, setting boundaries, and taking action to protect oneself. The conversation highlights the need for mothers to reclaim their dignity and safety, encouraging them to speak up, seek support, and prioritize their well-being. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Parental Abuse 05:36 Setting Boundaries and Protecting Yourself 10:03 Finding Support and...

EP25: MY ESTRANGED CHILD REACHED OUT! NOW WHAT!?

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Williams discusses the emotional turmoil that comes with receiving unexpected communication from an estranged child. She emphasizes the importance of managing anxiety, setting boundaries, and protecting one's mental health while navigating these complex relationships. The conversation provides practical advice for mothers dealing with estrangement, focusing on the need for self-care and cautious communication. Chapters 00:00 My Estranged Child Reached Out Now WHAT?! 01:14 New Chapter 02:47 Understanding Emotional Responses and Setting...

EP24: Have Black Moms Ruined Their Sons?

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, host Kendall Lasha engages in a deep conversation with therapist Jeff James about the complex dynamics between black mothers and their sons. They explore the societal and systemic issues that contribute to the challenges faced by black families, the historical context of family structures, and the emotional responsibilities placed on children. The discussion also touches on the importance of accountability in relationships and the impact of parenting styles on the emotional health of children. In this conversation, Kendall Lasha and Jeffre James...

EP23: ARE MOMS REALLY NARCISSISTS?

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, Kendall Lasha delves into the complex dynamics between mothers and their children, particularly focusing on the rising trend of labeling mothers as narcissists. She challenges the audience to reflect on their perceptions of motherhood, the impact of therapy on familial relationships, and the importance of empathy and understanding in the healing process. Through personal anecdotes and thought-provoking questions, Kendall emphasizes the need for forgiveness, the recognition of mothers as individuals with their own traumas, and the responsibility each...

EP22: REAL TALK TUESDAYS: Let's Spill Some True Tea!

Mum's True Tea w/Kendall Lasha

Summary In this episode of Mum's True Tea, I am going to address some of the complex challenges parents face in today's world, particularly regarding respect and communication with their adult children, how keeping parents from grandkids is a form of punishment and what parents are really going through. As I read through a series of listener emails and direct messages, I will share my insight and advice on navigating issues of estrangement, disrespect, and the emotional toll of parenting. This conversation emphasizes the importance of creating supportive environments for parents and...

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Summary

October is Domestic Violence Awareness month and In this episode I discuss the often-overlooked topic of parental abuse with my guest Alice Slaughter-Flowers who lost her sister Rosemary Pate to violence at the hands of her own son.

Join me as we explore the realities of parents living in fear of their own children, living under constant mental distress because of their children, being abused verbally and physcially and even killed by their own children.

We will discuss the cultural stigma surrounding this issue, the blame and judgement that mothers often face when trying to share their experiences, and the diverse factors that contribute to such dynamics.

The conversation highlights the need for awareness, support, and resources for parents facing abuse, emphasizing that this is a serious issue that transcends socioeconomic status and family structure.

If you are in need of help please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1*800*799*SAFE

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Parental Abuse
01:50 The Reality of Parental Abuse
06:10 Cultural Perspectives on Abuse
12:10 The Role of Mental Health
18:16 The Stigma of Seeking Help
24:53 Understanding Parental Abuse Dynamics
30:42 Personal Stories of Abuse
36:32 The Need for Support and Resources

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