The Grandma Fresh Show

The Grandma Fresh Show

🎙️ The Grandma Fresh Show – Season 2, Episode 8: The Apple Never Falls Far From the Tree (Season Finale) 🍎🌳 We often hear the phrase “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree” used as a catch-all to explain why people “turn out” the way they do. But is it that simple? In this season finale, we unpack this saying by diving deep into the timeless psychological debate of nature vs. nurture. Are we simply the sum of our DNA, or are our personalities shaped—and sometimes damaged—by the environments we grow up in? Dr. Shamara McFarland (aka Grandma Fresh) explores how...

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🧂 “Don’t Cry Over Spilled Milk” — A Fresh Take “Don’t cry over spilled milk” isn’t about pretending nothing happened. It’s about not wasting energy on regret — and instead, using that energy to evaluate, reframe, and transform. In this episode of The Grandma Fresh Show, we’re putting a modern spin on this old-school saying: ✨ It’s not about ignoring the past — it’s about processing it with purpose.✨ It’s about taking accountability without shame and choosing to renew your mindset. We break down: How to move from regret to realignment Why...

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You’ve heard the phrase: “The squeaky wheel gets the grease.” But let’s talk truth — when it comes to social justice, systemic inequality, and the lived experiences of marginalized communities, this saying doesn’t always hold up. Sometimes the people who cry out the loudest for help, justice, or reform are: Silenced Discredited Called “angry,” “too loud,” or “ungrateful” Or completely ignored In this episode of The Grandma Fresh Show, we explore what happens when the “squeaky wheels” are: Black and brown voices in white-dominant systems People living in...

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Absence Makes the Heart Grow Stronger — Here’s Why. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder… but what if it does even more? What if absence gives us the clarity to see what we couldn’t before? What if it strengthens the connection — or reveals the truth about it? In this episode, I share why absence can be the great teacher and tester of relationships:✨ It gives us perspective✨ It brings appreciation✨ It refines what is real and rooted  True connection doesn’t fade in the absence — it grows stronger, deeper, and more defined. And when absence reveals...

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🚨 “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” We’ve all heard this proverb — but what if it’s only partially true? In this 7-minute episode, I gently challenge the narrative that going alone is always the faster path, especially when you are building something visionary — a new idea, invention, program, or calling. Truth is, the process of creation takes time. Going alone can mean slow, lonely, and overwhelming when you’re navigating uncharted territory, building infrastructure, or carrying a heavy dream. On the flip side, going together...

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🎙️ Welcome back to Grandma Fresh! Today’s episode is called “Eating Humble Pie,” and we’re peeling back the layers of what that really means. Too often, humility is confused with humiliation, and being humble is treated like a downgrade. Historically, the phrase "humble pie" came from food that only the poor ate. So when someone says you’ve got to eat humble pie, it often carries judgment, shame, and a sense of social hierarchy. But not here. On this episode, we’re flipping the script. We're talking about the power of humility, the danger of devaluing people because of...

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In recognition of Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), this special edition of The Grandma Fresh Show serves as both a call to awareness and a call to action. Dr. Shamara McFarland, a seasoned public servant and former sexual assault advocate, delivers a compassionate, courageous public service message aimed at survivors, supporters, and systems. She reminds us that silence protects perpetrators, not victims, and that education, empathy, and accountability are the pillars of prevention. This brief but powerful message covers:🔹 The purpose of Sexual Assault Awareness Month🔹 How to...

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🎙️ Episode Title: Never Judge a Book by Its Cover 📅 Season 2, Episode 1 🕒 Seven Minutes of Wisdom, Inspiration & Motivation for Your Practical Application Episode Description: Welcome to Season 2 of The Grandma Fresh Show! Dr. Shamara McFarland returns with more timeless truths and fresh perspectives to help you live with clarity, purpose, and discernment. In this powerful kickoff episode, Dr. Shamara explores the age-old wisdom of “Never judge a book by its cover” — a phrase first penned in George Eliot’s The Mill on the Floss (1860) and still deeply relevant today. She...

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Welcome to another episode of Grandma Fresh! Today, we’re getting real about the popular idea of the Law of Attraction. You’ve probably heard it before: “Think positive, and you’ll attract positive things.” But is it really that simple? In “Why the Law of Attraction Is Not True,” we’ll unpack why this idea often misses the mark. Instead of relying on wishful thinking, we’ll dive into the practical steps, mindset shifts, and real work that lead to true success and fulfillment. If you’ve ever wondered why life isn’t going as planned despite your positive thoughts, this...

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In this episode of Grandma Fresh, we explore the delicate balance between protecting your heart and keeping it open to love, trust, and meaningful connections. Life’s challenges—betrayals, heartbreaks, and disappointments—can make us want to shut down emotionally, but closing our hearts completely can also close us off to joy, healing, and growth. We’ll dive into the wisdom of guarding your heart in a way that protects your peace and emotional well-being while still allowing room for vulnerability and authentic relationships. This episode offers practical advice and empowering...