LOVE BOMBED & GASLIT: Escaping Narcissistic Abuse
Release Date: 02/04/2025
EAT, PRAY, EFF THESE DUDES: Choosing Not to Date (On Purpose!)
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
This week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound, besties Jaki & Rachael are pouring a glass and stepping into their Soft Girl Self-Focused Era — intentionally, unapologetically, and with receipts. Jaki opens up about her decision to decenter men completely, sharing the moment she realized that dating was draining her magic instead of adding to it (and yes, she’s sticking to it!). Meanwhile, Rachael reflects on the months since her breakup and what it’s been like to choose herself first, every single day. Together, the girls ask the big question: What can we accomplish when we stop giving...
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ACROSS THE POND: Mind the Gap, Find Yourself
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
Besties Jaki and Rachael are back, and Jaki’s fresh from her unforgettable trip across the pond! From exploring London and cozy English pubs to wandering the streets of Paris, Jaki shares how this adventure turned into something deeper — a trip of sisterhood, self-discovery, and falling in love with herself. Pour a glass and join the girls for a heart-filled catch-up full of laughs, reflection, and a little European magic. 💕✨
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DATING AGAIN - PART 2: Setting Intentions & Celebrating Your Single Era
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
We’re back for part two, besties, and it’s getting real. Jaki, Rachael, and our friend Madeline pick up where we left off, diving deeper into life after heartbreak, redefining what you want in a partner, and embracing your single era unapologetically. 💅 This episode is all about choosing you first—whether that means jumping back on the apps, dating intentionally, or saying “nah, I’m good” and focusing on self-love instead. We share personal stories, hard-learned lessons, and a few juicy dating confessions along the way. Grab your whiskey, settle in, and let’s navigate this...
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DATING AGAIN - PART 1: Boundaries, Red Flags & Embracing Singleness
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
Besties Jaki & Rachael are back, and we’re diving headfirst into the wild world of dating! 💔➡️❤️ After a breakup, deciding whether to date—or intentionally not date—can feel like a whole journey. We’re joined by our friend Madeline, who’s back on the apps after three years of being happily single, while Rachael debates whether it’s time to jump back in or stay out of the game entirely. Meanwhile, Jaki… well, let’s just say she’s on a very specific app for a very specific purpose. 👀 In this candid and hilarious chat, we unpack: Setting healthy...
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YOU'RE DEAD TO ME #3: From the Vault - Red Flags & Regrets
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
It’s Part 3 of the You're Dead to Me series and this one’s from the vault, baby! 📦 Jaki & Rachael unearthed a never-before-released episode recorded after Rachael’s first breakup with Deadpool—and whew, the red flags were waving in HD. Why didn’t we release it then? Because we were still in our “maybe he’ll change” era. But now? No more protecting dumbass men. We’re reading receipts, roasting behaviors, and reminding you to trust your gut the first time. 💅 Buckle up—this one's a time capsule of 🚩 chaos. FEATURED ON THE PODCAST:
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YOU'RE DEAD TO ME #2: The Final Fade-Out of Deadpool
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
Welcome back to the You're Dead to Me series, where Jaki & Rachael stop protecting men who absolutely don’t deserve it. In Part 2, Rachael officially ends things with Deadpool—for the final time. What finally pushed her over the edge? Oh, just the small matter of her paying for an amazing vacation… only for him to ask her to make his car payment when they got home. 🚩 Baby, no. Grab your whiskey and get ready for the takedown—we’ve got receipts, rants, and a whole lot of clarity. FEATURED ON THE PODCAST:
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YOU'RE DEAD TO ME #1: The Eagle Has Landed
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
Welcome to You're Dead to Me—a brand new series where Jaki & Rachael stop protecting the men who should’ve been exposed ages ago. In Part 1, “The Eagle” swoops in with a shocking message that crashes and burns a nearly 30-year friendship. What did he say that made Rachael react with surgical precision and zero regret? Don’t worry, besties—she’s reading every text and spilling all the tea. No more second chances, no more sugarcoating. The era of polite silence is over… and we’re just getting started. Buckle up. FEATURED ON THE PODCAST:
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REPLAY: Just Xennial Girls in a Millennial World
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
While Jaki & Rachael soak up some much-needed vacation time, we’re rewinding it all the way back to where it started—our very first episode! Whether you're a longtime listener or just joining the coven, enjoy this throwback gem: Just Xennial Girls in a Millennial World. We'll be back soon with fresh chaos, spellbinding stories, and whiskey-fueled rants. Until then, press play and relive the magic (or experience it for the first time)! 🥃✨
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EFF, MARRY, FRIENDZONE: Chaos Edition
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
It’s a wild ride this week on Whiskey Bent & Spellbound as besties Jaki & Rachael play the ultimate game of Eff, Marry, or Friendzone—but with a twist. From cartoon villains to gothic heartthrobs, no one is safe from their hot takes. Who’s getting friendzoned? Who’s getting wifed up? And who’s just getting... well, you know. Pour yourself a stiff one and prepare for unhinged debates, unexpected crushes, and so much laughter. Let the chaos begin! FEATURED ON THE PODCAST:
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CLOSURE: The Gift You Give Yourself
Whiskey Bent & Spellbound
In this episode, Jaki and Rachael dive into the messy, personal, and often misunderstood concept of closure. From romantic breakups to professional goodbyes, they explore why closure isn’t something you get from other people—it’s something you create for yourself. Jaki shares what she’s going through after a recent breakup, including the techniques she’s using to gain peace and move forward. Whether you're letting go of an ex, a job, or an old version of yourself, this episode is a reminder that closure doesn’t come with a bow—it comes with intention. Featured on the...
info_outlineBesties Jaki & Rachael are diving deep into the dark world of narcissistic abuse—how to spot it, how to survive it, and what to do if you think you might be in it. Jaki shares her own escape story, while Rachael talks about the people in her life still caught in the web of both overt and covert narcissistic abuse. From love-bombing to gaslighting to the brutal discard phase, we’re pulling back the curtain on these toxic dynamics and reminding you that you are not alone.
Plus, Spirit is screaming at us in this week’s tarot reading, and we’re (finally) listening! Buckle up—this one’s a wild ride. 🎢🔮
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