Parenting Practicals--Growing Resilience with Dr. Nicole Wilke
Release Date: 05/26/2025
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info_outlineWe all want our children to be overcomers, ones who get back up when life knocks them down, and who learn from the challenges they face. In short, we want them to be resilient. Dr. Nicole Wilke joins us today to talk about what resilience is, what the Scriptures say about it, and how we can cultivate resilience in our children. Her words bring hope no matter what your children have or are facing. As Dr. Wilke and Amanda Howard write in their book Overcoming, "Adversity is not the end of the story." Our God has something to say about it.
Learn more about the books Overcoming and Caleb Koala's Comeback Ride, also by Dr. Wilke.
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