Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 3- Different Types of Pain Play
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Pain doesn’t always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play within BDSM, from impact and sensation play to psychological and endurance-based dynamics. We’ll break down how pain can feel pleasurable, why different bodies and minds experience it differently, and how consent, communication, and aftercare transform pain into a powerful, intimate exchange. Whether you’re kink-curious, experienced, or simply looking to understand BDSM more deeply,...
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Dating a Trans Person- Understanding Gender Identity vs. Sexual Orientation
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What does it actually mean to date a trans person—and how is gender identity different from sexual orientation? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down the basics without dumbing it down. We explore common myths, unpack attraction and labels, and talk about what respectful, affirming dating looks like when your partner is trans. From pronouns and communication to sex, pleasure, and consent, this conversation centers curiosity over assumptions and people over labels. Whether you’re dating a trans person, questioning your own attractions, or just want to be a better, more...
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A Conversation About Consent- ENCORE
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Your Dildo Whisperer is still dealing with her cross country move. Which means this week's episode is an encore episode! Enjoy this encore and we will be back with new episodes soon. ENCORE Episode This week the Dildo Whisperer is having a conversation about consent. It is a topic that isn't talked about nearly enough and people often misunderstand what it means to get consent. Romaine and Ajay talk about personal experiences of times when consent was about mental health, personal preference and when the line gets a little blury. This is a dildo whisperer conversation you don't want to...
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Year In Review
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The Dildo Whisperer is wrapping up the 3rd season of the show with a look back at Romaine and Ajay's top 3 episodes of 2025. This is a fun look back on episodes that were both serious and comical but most importantly educational. Tune in to hear about some of the episodes you may have missed. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer...
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Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 2 — Consent, Communication & Negotiation
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In part 2 of our Finding Pleasure in Pain series we will focus on why pain can be an erotic, intimate, empowering — and deeply pleasurable part of sex — when it’s done with care, clarity, and consent. In this episode, we explore how people find pleasure in intense sensation, why the brain sometimes loves a little sting, and what it really takes to make pain play safe, connected, and mutually satisfying. We break down the foundations of informed consent, walk through real-world negotiation tips, and share communication tools that keep partners grounded and in control. From exploring...
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Finding Pleasure in Pain Series: Part 1- Understanding Kink, Sensation, and Consent
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Why do some people find pleasure in pain? In this educational, sex-positive series, we are going to explore the science and psychology behind erotic pain—how certain sensations activate the brain’s pleasure centers, why trust and vulnerability deepen the experience, and how kink dynamics create powerful emotional intimacy. In part 1 of this series we break down different types of sensation play, from spanking and scratching to temperature play and BDSM tools, all through a lens of consent, safety, and communication. Whether you’re curious about kink, experienced in BDSM, or simply...
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Holiday Heat- Bringing Seasonal Spice Into Your Sex Life
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The holidays aren’t just about twinkling lights and cozy sweaters—they’re also a perfect chance to spark intimacy, reconnect with your body, and bring a little extra spice into the season. In this episode, we unwrap creative, consensual ways to blend holiday traditions with pleasure: from festive sensory play and sexy gift ideas to roleplay, themed lingerie, and cozy rituals that can deepen connection. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode offers fun, shame-free tips for turning your holidays into a season of warmth, pleasure, and joy. Send the us your...
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Gratitude and Pleasure- Honoring a Healthy Sex Life
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In this heart-centered episode, we explore how gratitude can transform your sexual well-being—from deepening emotional connection to boosting desire, confidence, and communication. Whether you're solo, partnered, monogamous, or somewhere in between, we break down how gratitude helps cultivate a more fulfilling, joyful, and authentic sex life. We’ll dive into self-love practices, partner appreciation rituals, body positivity, and the simple moments that keep intimacy thriving beyond the bedroom. Tune in for a grounded, shame-free conversation about celebrating what’s working, honoring...
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Small but Mighty: The History of the Pocket Rocket
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It’s the little vibrator that changed everything. In this episode, we blast off into the history of the Pocket Rocket — the small, unassuming toy that helped bring sexual pleasure out of the shadows and into the mainstream. From its 1990s debut as a “personal massager” to its rise as a cultural icon, the Pocket Rocket redefined what a sex toy could be: discreet, approachable, and designed for real people. We’ll explore how this tiny device empowered a generation to embrace self-pleasure, influenced modern vibrator design, and helped shift conversations around women’s sexuality,...
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Love at a Distance- Staying Connected with Sex Tech
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Who says long-distance can’t be intimate? This week on the Dildo Whisperer, we’re turning up the heat with remote-controlled and app-connected sex toys—the tech keeping lovers close even when they’re miles apart. From how these devices work to tips for creating emotional connection across screens, we’ll explore the fun, the fantasy, and the future of digital intimacy. Whether you’re separated by cities or continents, these toys prove that love (and pleasure) can travel at the speed of Wi-Fi. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next...
info_outlineSex can be exciting, intimate, and fulfilling—but sometimes it comes with consequences we don’t plan for. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we dive into the physical, emotional, social, and even legal outcomes that can follow sexual experiences, from unintended pregnancy and STIs to regret, shame, and relationship challenges. With a focus on honesty and compassion, we explore how to protect yourself, navigate tricky situations, and reframe the conversation around safe and informed choices.
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