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Neurodiversity and Friendship with MissNatasha Connects

Your Voice Matters

Release Date: 08/06/2025

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Your Voice Matters

How do we ensure disability, ADHD and neurodivergence inclusion at work (and personal life). That’s the topic of this week’s podcast episode. "Life sometimes is difficult and we are thrown lots of different hands. It's about getting back to self-acceptance. Put your own oxygen mask on first. It's not selfish, it's necessary." Hannah Gibson, founder of a disability inclusion consultancy and registered blind advocate, shares her personal journey of unmasking and self-acceptance. She opens up about living with retinitis pigmentosa, her experiences masking in corporate leadership roles, and...

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Why is people pleasing so common in the neurodivergent community? We discuss that very topic on this week’s episode of the podcast. "It is what it is. If people don't wanna be friends with me, it is what it is. Every day should be a learning day. Every day should be a day to work on yourself and your confidence." Asma welcomes back autism advocate Carly Considine to explore the often overlooked topic of people-pleasing within the neurodivergent community.  Carly shares her personal journey with people-pleasing, anxious attachment, and rejection sensitivity dysphoria. She offers...

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How do we amplify student voices when it comes to SEND education? Neurodiversity and inclusion specialist, Alex Silk, comes on the podcast to discuss. "We need to be asking how they feel about their school experience. Do they feel a part of that whole school dynamic? Do they belong?" In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob welcomes Alex Silk, with 12 years of expertise in special educational needs. Alex shares her journey from a well-paid corporate career to working as a teaching assistant in a special needs school, where she discovered her true calling. Alex discusses the vital...

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What if the key to helping your child navigate school transitions isn't about removing their anxiety but giving them the tools to transform it? "On the other side of fear is the thing that you want." In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob welcomes Sam Bowley, a hypnotherapist specialising in anxiety management for neurodivergent children and young people. Sam shares her experience running transition programmes that support children moving from primary to secondary school and between year groups. From creating safe spaces to understanding the unique challenges neurodivergent children...

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"When I put my mind to something, I get it. No matter what's in my way, I get it."  In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Chris, a hypnotherapist and former paramedic who shares her journey with dyslexia.   For decades, Chris kept her dyslexia hidden, carrying shame from being labeled 'a bit slow' as a child in the 1970s. From hairdressing to becoming a paramedic and eventually a hypnotherapist, Chris reveals how she pushed through education and career challenges without accepting help, fearing judgment and different treatment.  Now, Chris...

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"Anxiety is more than nothing. It's extremely exhausting and debilitating. It's okay not to be okay." Anxiety doesn't always need a reason and it's never "nothing." In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Carly Considine, an autistic adult and mother of autistic children, about the reality of living with heightened anxiety.  Carly shares personal stories of panic attacks, the struggle to find rationality in anxious moments, and practical coping strategies that help her family navigate daily challenges.  From mindfulness techniques to the exhaustion of masking,...

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"We sing, we create, we play, we have fun and it can't be one without the other." In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Bella Ely, a music teacher with 23 years of teaching experience who specialises in working with autistic children. Bella shares how she discovered the power of music as a tool for emotional regulation early in her career, working with vulnerable children in foster care and orphanages. She explains her unique approach to online music sessions that combine creativity, play, and emotional regulation strategies, helping children and their families...

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Trigger warning: This episode discusses childhood trauma, sexual abuse, medical trauma, paralysis, and societal discrimination. Living with a disability and neurodivergence while defying the odds, Malaika (MK) proves that medical expectations don’t define your journey and achievements. "Find your spark. Go make your soul happy. Do what you love, and let's heal this world together." - Malaika (MK) In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob chats with Malaika, a multi-creative advocate who shares their journey of navigating multiple disabilities, childhood trauma, and discovering...

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Trigger warning: This episode includes honest discussion about isolation, stigma, and the challenges of living with chronic illness.   In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob speaks with Belinda Moscoso, a passionate advocate for the neurodivergent and SEND communities.   Belinda shares her journey of receiving a late diagnosis of ADHD and autism alongside her son, as well as her experiences of living with chronic illness.   Together, they explore the importance of acceptance, resilience, inclusivity, and the power of advocacy in breaking down stigma. This episode...

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Trigger warning: This episode touches on themes of trauma, isolation, and the impact of the pandemic on children’s mental health. Please take care while listening. In this episode of Your Voice Matters, Asma Jacob chats with Mick Collins, a storyteller, theatre practitioner, leading practitioner in Trauma Informed Practice, and educator. Mick shares his creative and compassionate approach to working with SEND children and children with trauma backgrounds, showing how theatre, play, and sensory experiences can open up communication and connection. Together, they explore the importance of safe...

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Trigger warning: This episode includes discussions around friendship challenges, feelings of isolation, and the emotional impact of not being accepted for who you are. While the conversation is uplifting, some listeners may find these themes emotionally sensitive.

In this episode of Your Voice Matters, host Asma Jacob speaks with MissNatasha Connect, an author, digital educator, and passionate advocate for neurodivergent communities. Together, they explore what real, affirming friendship looks like for neurodivergent people. 

“Having someone that really accepts you for you, your whole. The light, the dark, the whole shebang that comes with it and supporting us to be ourselves.”

From embracing boundaries to honouring individuality, this conversation invites listeners to reflect on how friendships can become more inclusive, respectful, and empowering. You'll hear both personal reflections and practical advice that centre authenticity and connection.

Key Takeaways:

  • True friendship starts with being accepted just as you are, no masking needed.

  • Open, honest conversations help build trust and emotional safety.

  • Boundaries are not barriers, they’re bridges to healthier relationships.

  • It’s okay to ask for what you need in a friendship. Embrace your unique way of thinking and connecting, there is strength in it.

About MissNatasha Connects: 

MissNatasha Connects is an author, digital educator, and speaker who is authentically autistic. Mother of two, Auntie to many. She supports education, employment and family organisations to uplift and value the individuals they serve. Through books; organisational strategising sessions, support groups and speaking engagements.

Connect on Instagram: @natashaconnect or @tashas_tees

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