Transforming Conflict and Harnessing Curiosity for Better Deals with Andres Lares
Release Date: 11/03/2025
Higgle: The B2B Sales Club
How can emotional intelligence and cultural sensitivity transform your B2B sales strategy in a world dominated by automation? Joining the podcast today is Oya Mustafa, the Chief Growth Officer at Not Normal Group. We get into a deep discussion about transformative power of emotional intelligence in B2B sales, discussing how human-centric approaches can outshine the surging trend of AI. Oya passionately shares her insights on building trust through genuine human connections and the crucial role of emotional intelligence and cultural sensitivity in business development. We explore the paradigm...
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Are you ready to discover the magic of combining scientific insights with emotional connections in brand strategy? Ulli Appelbaum, Founder & Chief Strategy Officer at First The Trousers Then The Shoes, joins us in this episode to explore the nuanced world of brand strategy. As he shares his wealth of experience in creating brand clarity and emotional connections, we examine how the science of brand associations can elevate a business beyond just its logo, turning it into a series of memorable connections. From discussing the 95-5 rule to understanding how charisma and honesty foster...
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What secrets do expert negotiators use to transform conflicts into win-win situations? Andres Lares, Managing Partner of the Shapiro Negotiations Institute, joins us to share his wealth of negotiation experience in this episode. We explore the transformative power of empathy and emotional intelligence in achieving successful outcomes, as Andres emphasizes the importance of considering the other party's needs and transforming negotiations into collaborative efforts. By focusing on curiosity and the art of asking the right questions, we uncover strategies to build rapport and gather valuable...
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Are you curious about the strategies that can turn a simple proposal into a winning formula for sustainable agency growth? We’re welcoming Anna Stone today, Head of Growth at True and a veteran in business development, to unravel the evolution of agency growth strategies from the days of cold calling to the modern era of video calls and personalized outreach. Anna shares her insights on how meaningful client engagement can transcend hard selling, emphasizing the importance of building genuine relationships. We dig into the necessity of adapting to new communication methods, while still...
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What if listening is the ultimate skill missing from your sales toolkit? Brooke Pinkney, Managing Director at Broadley Speaking, joins us today to challenge the pitfalls of short-term thinking in sales strategies and emphasize the importance of patience and long-term planning. Brooke also examines the misconception that quick-fix solutions can resolve the complexities of significant B2B purchases involving multiple decision-makers. We discuss the need for businesses to accurately diagnose their sales challenges and engage in meaningful interactions over extended sales cycles, avoiding the trap...
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What simple daily practices can dramatically boost your sales success and negotiation outcomes? We’re getting deep into the power of mindset and authenticity in this week’s episode. Joining me is the insightful David Meade, an expert in high-performing teams, who sheds light on how small, daily changes can significantly impact sales outcomes. We discuss the importance of adopting a growth mindset to enhance openness and collaboration, which are essential for finding common ground in sales conversations. With reference to expert studies, we explore how building rapport before negotiations...
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Are you prepared to tackle the challenges of AI governance and leverage its potential for innovation in digital marketing? In this episode we sit down with Sumeet Vermani, Founder & Chief Marketing Officer of SKV Consulting, to unlock the secrets of implementing AI in business. We explore the vital need for aligning AI strategies with broader business objectives, going beyond the mere trendiness of technology. Sumeet shares how AI adoption is prompting cultural shifts in organizations, influenced by platforms like Google. Through Sumeet’s first-hand experiences, we emphasize the...
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How can a UK-based business successfully navigate the complexities of expanding into the competitive US market without losing its foothold at home? Today we’re welcoming back Jennifer Quigley-Jones, the Founder and CEO of Digital Voices, as she talks about boldly expanding her UK-based business into the vibrant US market. She shares her strategic decision to reinvest $400,000 of retained profits, choosing long-term growth over personal dividends. We also learn about her innovative approaches to scaling operations and refining sales strategies within the ad agency industry. Jennifer’s story...
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How can agencies build trust and articulate value to excel in complex third-sector negotiations? Jenny Kitchen, the CEO of Yoyo Design, is with us today to explore the transformative journey of a digital agency evolving into a leader in the third sector. She explains how Yoyo Design strategically partnered with technology like Umbraco and collaborated with organizations such as the RNLI to fuel their growth and establish a strong foothold in the sector. Jenny shares personal stories from her time in rural France, which have shaped her leadership approach, emphasizing creativity, strategic...
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What strategies can agencies implement to harness the power of referrals and retention for sustainable growth? Tom Poynter is a seasoned industry expert who has honed his skills at prestigious companies and is currently Managing Director at Keel. In this discussion, we get into the importance of niche specialization in the competitive landscape of UK agencies, where 25,000 entities vie for attention. Tom argues that being a jack-of-all-trades isn't enough anymore. We explore how agencies can thrive by focusing on specific sectors and developing a deep understanding of client needs. We also...
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Andres Lares, Managing Partner of the Shapiro Negotiations Institute, joins us to share his wealth of negotiation experience in this episode. We explore the transformative power of empathy and emotional intelligence in achieving successful outcomes, as Andres emphasizes the importance of considering the other party's needs and transforming negotiations into collaborative efforts. By focusing on curiosity and the art of asking the right questions, we uncover strategies to build rapport and gather valuable insights, ultimately ensuring both parties walk away satisfied.
We also talk about strategic collaboration, examining the dynamics between sales and procurement using models like the Kraljic matrix. We get into the importance of preparation and ethical conduct, discussing how understanding your BATNA can enhance leverage without sacrificing integrity. Through engaging examples, Andres also highlights the significance of trust and transparency.
Topics covered during this episode include:
- How empathy and emotional intelligence will enhance your negotiation skills.
- Why considering the needs of both parties is required for collaborative agreements.
- How curiosity and strategic questioning build rapport and gather insights.
- Why strategic collaboration is vital in sales and procurement relationships.
- How the Kraljic matrix and Thomas-Kilmann model can be used to respond to conflict.
- Why preparation and curiosity are key to successful negotiations.
- How trading variables avoids fixed-sum scenarios and facilitates win-win outcomes.
- Why transparency and avoiding false deadlines are crucial for ethical negotiations.
- How leveraging BATNA influences negotiation power and confidence.
- Why building strong relationships is essential for resilience in market challenges.
- The PAID acronym that Andres used to guide preparation in negotiations.
- How negotiating ethically prevents eroding trust and maintains long-term relationships.
- Why understanding counterpart's alternatives is important for negotiation strategy.
Enhance your negotiation leverage and ethical standards by exploring the valuable insights shared in this conversation with an absolute expert!
Andres Lares on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreslares/