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Daily Note #990: The Cost Of Others' Opinions

AlignedLife with Justin Castelli

Release Date: 09/22/2025

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How many times have you not done something because of the fear of what others might think or say? Probably too many times. 

Today's Note has a great quote from Samuel Ayomabi that I think will help you see the true cost the opinions of others are costing you.

You can read the entire Note here: https://www.justincastelli.io/dailynotes/92225