2 - Winning the battle of finally stepping unto the scale
She’s Called to Wellness Christian Weight Loss, Wellness & Mindset for Women in Ministry
Release Date: 10/22/2025
She’s Called to Wellness Christian Weight Loss, Wellness & Mindset for Women in Ministry
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Women in ministry are uniquely vulnerable to cortisol belly fat because of chronic stress, emotional labor, trauma exposure, disrupted sleep, and the constant pressure to pour out without rest. In Part 2 of this series, we move past awareness and talk about what actually helps—because cortisol belly is not a discipline problem or a lack of willpower. It’s a nervous system problem, and pushing harder often makes it worse. In this episode, we break down what the nervous system really is, why regulation is the foundation of hormone balance and belly fat loss, and how constant overdrive keeps...
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Why Women in Ministry Are More Prone to Weight Gain In this episode, we talk about why weight gain especially belly fat is so common for women in ministry, and why it’s not a failure of discipline or faith, but a stress response of the body. We explore how chronic ministry stress keeps cortisol elevated and dysregulates the HPA axis, leading to increased fat storage, insulin resistance, slower metabolism, muscle loss, and persistent cravings. We also address the moral pressure around self-care in ministry and how beliefs like “rest is selfish” or “my body shouldn’t matter”...
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You cannot overcome what you are not willing to be real about. In this episode, we're breaking down the three most common excuses that keep you from losing weight and more importantly, revealing what you're REALLY avoiding when you use them. Discover the neuroscience behind your excuses and learn why your brain generates "logical" reasons to keep you stuck. From the amygdala's fear response to the neural pathways you've been strengthening without realizing it, this episode will help you understand what's happening in your brain when you say "I don't have time," "I don't know what to do," or "I...
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Are you ready to make 2026 your breakthrough year? In this powerful episode, we're diving deep into vision casting a transformative process that will help you finally break free from the weight loss patterns that have kept you stuck. In This Episode, You'll Discover: Reflection & Root Causes How to identify the painful experiences that have been holding you back The real reasons you're still stuck in your health and wellness journey Patterns, habits, and excuses you've been repeating that sabotage your progress Vision Setting How to clarify your ultimate health goal and your...
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This Thanksgiving, I experienced something that many of you might relate to. I was intentional about my health. I walked a lot, avoided snacking, and set a goal to lose just half a pound that week. But when I stepped on the scale after the holiday, I had gained 4 pounds. I felt upset. I felt mad. But instead of giving up, I continued with my week as planned. I ate at home, focused on my nutrition, and within just four days, I had not only lost those 4 pounds, I lost the additional half pound I was originally going after. My Lessons: Nutrition is more important than I realized I had...
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Episode Description Losing weight doesn't have to drain your wallet. In this episode, we break down practical, budget-friendly strategies for eating healthy, staying motivated, and exercising without spending a fortune. Whether you're just starting your weight loss journey or looking to cut costs while staying on track, this episode proves you can transform your health without breaking the bank. Key Takeaways Eating Healthy on a Budget Contrary to popular belief, eating healthy can actually cost less than an unhealthy lifestyle. The secret is changing where and how you shop. Focus on...
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Episode Overview: In this powerful episode, we tackle one of the most intimidating moments in any weight loss journey finally stepping onto the scale. Learn how to transform this fear-inducing moment into an empowering catalyst for lasting change.
Key Topics Covered:
There's No Right or Wrong Time
- Stop waiting for the "perfect moment" to weigh yourself
- The best time is when you're ready to take action, not when conditions are ideal
- Waiting often means staying stuck courage comes from acting despite fear
Confronting Fear
- Acknowledging the anxiety and dread that surrounds the scale
- Understanding that fear loses power when we face it directly
- The scale can only tell you where you are, not where you'll end up
Facing the Hard Truth
- Why avoiding the number keeps you in denial
- The liberation that comes from honest self-assessment
- How the truth, even when uncomfortable, sets the foundation for real change
Delaying Instant Gratification for Long-Term Success
- The discomfort of stepping on the scale is temporary
- Avoiding it provides short-term relief but long-term stagnation
- Choosing to face hard moments now creates the future you want
Using That Number to Empower You
- Reframing the scale reading as your starting line, not your sentence
- How knowing your weight gives you concrete data to measure progress against
- Making a commitment: use this number to fuel your determination to never see it again
- Transforming shame into motivation and clarity into action