098: What Are the Top Ten (Plus) Estate Planning Myths?

Considering what might potentially hang in the balance, logic would suggest that when it comes time to prepare an estate plan, nearly all of us would stick to a “just the facts” approach, steering clear of secondhand and ill-conceived advice from friends or flat-out inaccurate information that’s been handed down from generation to generation. But let’s be honest, estate planning can have its complexities and be confusing, so often, the information we have from our peers might be all we have.

The problem is, when it comes time to put an estate plan into action, it’s usually too late for do-overs. And, if that estate plan is built on faulty information or incomplete follow-through, the financial consequences can be substantial — even life-changing. Hard-earned assets that don’t end up going to the intended beneficiaries, unintentional and seemingly harmless missteps that can result in legal action, and even woefully inadequate medical provisions at a point in life where they’re needed the most.

We totally understand that there is a sense of uneasiness that often surrounds the subject of estate planning. Almost nothing reminds us of our own mortality, like sitting down and strategizing for our pending demise or incapacitation. So instead of putting in the all-important due diligence to get to the bottom of the realities of estate planning — or better yet, soliciting the guidance of a qualified professional — many of us take the path of least resistance and rely on often expedient but faulty information that can bring on those severe consequences down the line.

It’s just too important a topic to rely on shortcuts, so in this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe and associate attorney, Madison Gunn, will not only examine some of the most common estate planning myths they’ve encountered in the course of their practices, but will also counter them with the actual legal facts.

These myths will range from thoroughly believable to seemingly irrational. Some you may have even accepted as fact a long time ago, while others might leave you scratching your head in disbelief. But they’ll all have one thing in common — subscribing to them can lead to many problems down the line.

In this episode, we’ll discuss:

• How, despite the best of intentions, lack of follow-through can torpedo major elements of even the best estate plans
• The misunderstandings that surround the concept of common-law marriage (Hint: It’s not even a thing in many states)
• Why irrevocable trusts aren’t the panacea that many believe them to be
• The variety of circumstances that can lead details of your estate plan to be divulged to people you’d rather not know about it
• What is required of an aging parent when it comes time to update their estate plan
• Why estate planning is essential even for those who don’t have heirs or have amassed valuable assets

And more.

With all the misinformation surrounding estate planning that’s circulated over the years, it might be hard at times to separate fact from fiction, but we’re here to help! Join Kirsten and Madison as they clear up some of the most common estate planning myths they’ve encountered during their careers and replace these falsehoods with actual facts.