Ep 364: From the Vault Ep 129 — Leadership vs. the Performance of Leadership
Release Date: 06/16/2025
Ep 377: I Need to Get Over My Arrogance
The Transformational Leader
Arrogance can be one of the biggest blind spots for leaders. It shows up subtly in judgment, in righteousness, or in the need to be right, and it can quietly damage trust and impact. In this episode, Adam Quiney shares a personal story about being called out for his arrogance and the lessons that came with it. He explores why arrogance is often a survival mechanism, how to spot it in yourself, and what it takes to hold feedback with grace instead of defensiveness.
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Mid-week Ep 143 : Adam Quiney
The Transformational Leader
On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney for a discussion on How We Train the World Around Us. In this episode, Adam discuss ideas such as How we train people around us to behave the way we complain about, How our training of the world at large makes our own transformation challenging, How we can train our clients and customers for a more empowering experience; and How to shift all of this. .
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Ep 376: The Three Stages of Acceptance
The Transformational Leader
Leadership and transformation aren’t about adding more tools to your belt; they are about seeing how you get in your own way. And that starts with learning to accept what is true about how you show up, even when it’s uncomfortable. In this episode, Adam Quiney breaks down the three stages of acceptance that every leader moves through. From resisting feedback to intellectual acknowledgment, and finally fully letting the impact of your actions take hold, Adam explores how each stage unfolds and why most people get stuck before achieving real transformation.
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Mid-week Ep 142: Adam Quiney
The Transformational Leader
On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney as he explores topics such as how relational patterns show up everywhere, what to do when your leader isn’t leading well, and how to practice “leading up.” Adam also unpacks the concept of being at choice, and why it’s central to the work of both coaches and leaders.
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Ep 375: Intellectual Loneliness
The Transformational Leader
Intellectual loneliness isn’t just about craving “deep talks.” It is the realization of how few people can truly tolerate complexity. It is noticeable how quickly others rush to have an answer, not to understand, but to be right. It is the silence that follows when what you say doesn’t fit neatly into someone’s script. In this episode, Adam Quiney dives into the experience of intellectual loneliness, why it often leaves us feeling isolated, and how the very mindset that makes us feel smarter can also deepen our disconnection. Listen and enjoy!
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Ep 374: Why We Think We're Already Doing the Work
The Transformational Leader
We often believe we are already doing the transformational work by reading books, watching videos, attending seminars, or having deep conversations with friends. These can look like transformation, but more often they skim the surface without truly shifting who we are. In this episode, Adam Quiney unpacks why our ego convinces us that we are “doing the work” when in reality, we are just reinforcing old patterns with new language. He shares how blind spots keep us stuck, why insights alone rarely lead to change, and why genuine transformation requires stepping into relationship and...
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Ep 373: Relationship Trumps Methodology
The Transformational Leader
Relationships are the foundation of powerful coaching. Yet, many clients and coaches lean heavily on methodology, certifications, or step-by-step processes, thinking that is what guarantees success. While methods can be useful, they can also become a shield that keeps real connection at arm’s length. In this insightful episode, Adam Quiney shares why true transformation happens when relationship takes priority over methodology, and how trust, presence, and genuine connection create breakthroughs that no system alone can deliver. Listen and enjoy the show!
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Ep 372: Meeting Someone vs. Stopping Someone
The Transformational Leader
How does transformation lead to kinder, more compassionate, and more generous leaders? In this episode, Adam Quiney shares why the heart of transformational leadership begins with a simple question: What do you want? We often meet people at the surface, seeking money, power, or control, but true change happens when we meet them where they are instead of trying to stop them. That’s when deeper possibilities open and real leadership begins. Listen and enjoy the show!
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Mid-week Ep 141: Seth Drugatz
The Transformational Leader
On this week’s mid-week episode, join Adam Quiney along with special guest Seth Drugatz, who will be sharing about his experience inside The Forge.
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Ep 371: Being a Product of Your Product
The Transformational Leader
The idea of being a product of your own product means that, in a setting or structure where you are both selling and using the product. That is the kind of idea of it. You ought to be modeling or demonstrating that the products work, that your life is better. It’s easy to fake the results. But real leadership shows in how you live, not in what you say. In this episode, Adam breaks down what it means to be a product of your product, why trying to look perfect backfires, and how trust is built through authenticity, not appearances.
info_outlineWhile very subtle, there is a distinction between leadership and the mere performance of leadership. Most people want to do leadership right, they want to look good, do right, and be inspiring as leaders. However, many don’t know the distinction between the two. In this episode, I’ll discuss how one is different from the other and how it impacts both your leadership and personal life. If you want to become a better leader and do leadership right, this is one episode you shouldn’t miss!