BDSM, Kink, Sexual Fantasies, and Trauma; Featuring Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE
Release Date: 04/13/2021
Dr. Jones' Review of Dr. Campbell's Book "Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents"
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I share some of my general thoughts about Dr. Sherrie Campbell's book. If you are healing from toxic parents (emotionally abusive or narcissistic), I recommend adding this book to your library. It is a quick read, very user friendly, uses layman terms, and is relatable to anyone who grew up in a toxic or abusive family! Purchase the *Be sure to check out page 1 for a note from yours truly! Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips...
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Social Awareness and Women's Empowerment featuring Dr. Leslie Dobson, PhD
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Dr. Leslie Dobson, PhD. and I sit down to discuss her work with predators. She and I discuss how it's important to be more aware, and confident while we exist in a world where people can be dangerous. We also discuss female psychopathy and how that can show up in friendships among women. Lastly, Dr. Leslie Dobson, PhD. leaves us with some tips on women's empowerment. To learn more about Dr. Dobson and her work, visit: Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly...
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No Contact, Low Contact, and Grey Rock Methods with Narcissists
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In this podcast, I discuss the difference between no-contact, low-contact, and grey rocking with a narcissist. I take a deep dive into when it's appropriate for you to go no-contact versus low-contact. I also discuss the parameters around grey rocking and why it shouldn't be used long-term unless absolutely necessary. None of these methods should be used to punish the abuser or to get them to contact you more. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for...
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Healing Sisterhood, Featuring Dr Joy Harden Bradford, PhD
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On today's podcast, Dr. Joy Harden-Bradford, PhD., and I discuss what a true sisterhood is and how you can create a sisterhood for yourself if you have trouble making connections. Dr. Joy and I explore what it means to heal through sisterhood. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know Visit the...
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Children Caught in the Crossfire of Conflict Between Their Parents
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When narcissistic parents are fighting, their children are often caught in the middle and used as pawns. In this discussion, I explore what children experience when caught in the middle of their narcissistic parents and how the parents take their anger out on their children. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the...
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Some Things I Learned in My Career Over The Years
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A bonus episode where I discuss some of the things that I have learned in my career. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know Visit the website for more information: Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: Twitter: Facebook: To connect with others who...
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Men Who Center Women
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In today's episode, I discuss men who center women. Men who center women devalue them and has a troubling relationship with his mother. He may put his partner in competition with his mother, however he doesn't have a good relationship with either woman. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list...
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Male-Centered Women
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In this episode of A Date With Darkness Podcast, I discussed what a male-centered woman is and the impact that she can have on family, friends, and in the workplace. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know Visit the website for more information: Let's keep...
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New Year's Relationship Intentions
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In this episode I discuss some things that we can do to improve the quality of our relationships with ourselves and with other people. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know Visit the website for more information: Let's keep the conversation going via...
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Preserving Your Mental Health During the Holidays
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Just a few reminders on things that you can do to protect your mental health if you deal with toxic family members or loved ones during the holidays. There are things that you can do to keep your peace, and keep the toxicity at a minimum. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first...
info_outlineA Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions.
Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss BDSM, kink, sexual fantasies, and trauma. Quandra and discuss the difference between a healthy sex-based lifestyle vs a life-style based in trauma. Quandra also discussed how to determine if a partner is abusive and not respectful of boundaries. She also shares why it's important to explore therapy if you are a trauma survivor and how trauma/abuse may show up for you in the bedroom.
*Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.
Visit Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE: www.sasstherapy.com
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