Navigating the Depths of Sexual Addiction with Gary Katz
Release Date: 04/08/2025
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info_outlineIn this episode of the Addict to Athlete podcast, host Blu Robinson engages with Gary Katz, a professional in the field of sexual addictions. They explore the complexities of addiction, particularly sexual addiction, and its impact on individuals and relationships. Katz discusses the spectrum of addiction, the stigma surrounding sexual behaviors, and the deep emotional wounds caused by betrayal. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, understanding values, and navigating the healing process for both individuals struggling with addiction and their partners. In this conversation, Gary Katz and Blu Robinson delve into the complexities of healing from betrayal in relationships. They discuss the timeline for recovery, the importance of emotional literacy, and the challenges of reestablishing intimacy after infidelity. The dialogue emphasizes the need for couples to navigate trust issues, the dynamics of sexual desire, and the impact of conflict and resentment on intimacy. Katz highlights the significance of individual and couples therapy in fostering understanding and healing, while also addressing the societal pressures that complicate emotional expression, particularly for men.
Takeaways
- Addiction is a form of self-abandonment.
- The stigma surrounding sexual addiction is profound.
- Betrayal trauma cuts deeper than other forms of addiction.
- Self-compassion is crucial in the recovery process.
- Understanding one's values is essential in addressing sexual behaviors.
- The partner's perspective is often overlooked in discussions of addiction.
- Shame plays a significant role in how individuals perceive their sexual behaviors.
- Healthy relationships require open communication about sexual needs.
- The brain often protects itself from painful truths, leading to denial.
- Navigating recovery involves addressing both individual and relational dynamics. It can take 18 to 24 months for healing.
- Healing is a personal journey; there's no race.
- Betrayed partners often seek knowledge to feel safe.
- Understanding betrayal trauma is crucial for recovery.
- Empathy is harder to learn than stopping harmful behaviors.
- Reestablishing intimacy requires patience and understanding.
- Couples need to prioritize their relationship amidst life demands.
- Conflict can be a sign of passion in relationships.
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