Episode 51 - Money Mindset Awareness For Couples
Couples Financial Coach Podcast
Release Date: 08/03/2021
Couples Financial Coach Podcast
Think your childhood doesn't impact your financial well-being? Think again. The attachment style we develop at a young age directly influences our communication and behavior in intimate relationships and with financial decisions. But there’s good news: our brains are *not* fixed. In this episode, Couples Therapist, Financial Therapist, and CFP™ Ed Coambs will teach you: The four attachment styles and how they impact our behavior in relationships. [2:40] Of the six key financial areas, which is the most stressful for couples to discuss. [6:58] How an unresolved...
info_outline Episode 64 - Awkward Money Conversations with FamilyCouples Financial Coach Podcast
“Couples and money” is being discussed more and more frequently in the media. But what about those other money conversations? You know, the awkward money conversations with family and friends. Maybe your friend asked to borrow money. Or you need to discuss your parents’ financial plan after retirement. Everyone seems to dread these, and for good reason...if they’re not handled in a healthy way, the relationship could suffer as a result. As our guest, Erin Lowry, author of the Broke Millennial series, teaches us: How being proactive in talking about money can help you avoid a crisis...
info_outline Episode 63 - Working Mom Life (As The Breadwinner) Part 2 of 2Couples Financial Coach Podcast
Times have changed, but have our attitudes shifted toward working mothers? In part two of our interview with Meghan Dwyer, Financial Planner and host of the podcast Money Isn't Scary, we continue unpacking the challenges for female breadwinners in a society that’s still too close to our Disney Fairytales. Bottom Line: while each partnership is unique, childcare and emotional support still fall disproportionately to women in heterosexual relationships. In this episode, we examine: How men can support their partners [7:07] Steps female breadwinners can take to decompress without putting a...
info_outline Episode 62 - Working Mom Life (As The Breadwinner) Part 1 of 2Couples Financial Coach Podcast
Fears, Feelings, and Fatigue, OH MY! Today we have a no-fluff conversation with Financial Planner and Podcast Host Meghan Dwyer about juggling career, family, and the nuances that come with being a female breadwinner. Money isn't scary, but we all have stories that we tell ourselves about our self-worth and ability to handle finances. For many women these stories are deeply embedded, negative, and reinforced throughout their lives. In part one of this two-part series, we explore: The patriarchal attitudes that still define women's role in the workplace and home The emotions that women feel as...
info_outline Episode 61 - What To Do When Money Talks Get HeatedCouples Financial Coach Podcast
Money, kids, and in-laws...those have to be the top 3 reasons couples fight, right? Today's guest can't help you with the last two, but they've got you covered on the first. Money is an emotional trigger for many couples, and even seemingly-innocent conversations can lead to heated arguments that are difficult to resolve and may boil over into other areas of the relationship. Men -- don’t miss this one. It’s for everyone, but there’s something powerful in the humility and perspective Stephen Finney brings. Who hasn't had a disagreement with their partner about blown budgets, missed...
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What would it be like to handle money in a way that highlights your strength and that you actually *enjoy* doing?! And Kolbe Theory ™ Certified Coach Michael Dickey is here to show us how! Join Michael as he takes us through his signature framework to learn how to: Determine if you are prone to disagreements as a couple and what to do about it [7:45] What to do when your conative mind doesn't align with societal norms [16:03] How to use your strengths to strive in and out of work [20:00] Micheal Dickey is the Chief Leadership Officer at Fiscal Fitness Phoenix and has been a Certified Kolbe...
info_outline Episode 59 - Financial Abuse In CouplesCouples Financial Coach Podcast
Having your caring, concerned, and trusted partner handle the finances in your relationship...seems like a dream come true, right? Not so fast! What happens when concern turns into coercion? When does trust become a threat? Financial abuse isn't widely discussed, so you may be surprised to learn how prevalent it is. Like domestic abuse, financial abuse can be subtle, suggestive at the outset, and yet just as severe. Two excellent organizations with programs to assist with physical abuse, safety, and financial abuse are https://domesticshelter.org/ and https://nnedv.org/ Before...
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It’s hard enough to navigate money, emotions, relationships, and expectations inside a single relationship, but... What about in blended families with sets of step-parents, step kids, your kids, and your new spouse?! Blending beautifully takes intentional conversations, collaboration, and perseverance to navigate what may seem like an ongoing family construction zone. Bill and Jen Rogers, of the Stepfamily Mission Possible podcast, are here to help us anticipate the complexities and develop a personalized roadmap! In this episode, they help us uncover the “magical formula” to blended...
info_outline Episode 57 - Attachment Styles, Relationships, and MoneyCouples Financial Coach Podcast
You learned about skeletal and muscular systems in school. But what about the psychological and biological system that helps us form and maintain healthy relationships with ourselves, others, and our money? Ed Coambs is a thought leader in Financial Therapy with experience in financial planning. He has combined his experience with analysis of the latest brain and love research to learn what makes us tick around relationships and money. He’s found a theory that explains so much of it: Attachment Theory. Ed is here to share how attachment styles can impact our financial well-being. Your...
info_outline Episode 56 - How To Strengthen Your Marriage While Improving Your FinancesCouples Financial Coach Podcast
Let's face it, no one wants to compromise when it comes to their marriage or their money. That's why this week's episode is all about creating synergy. We know that when two individuals come together as one, they have an opportunity to become greater than the sum of their equal parts. Despite this knowledge, couples still struggle to find actionable tools to tap into the magic of synergy. This episode features Relationship Coach Cheri Timko on why a couple's greatest tool is the unique *habits* they create. She also shares a powerful habit that any couple can incorporate to...
info_outlineYou’ve likely heard the term “money mindset” thrown around.
But what does it really mean, and how does it affect our relationships?
Luckily, our guest is Certified Divorce Specialist & Financial Therapy Association member Christine Luken! She has coached hundreds of high-earning professionals toward paying off staggering amounts of debt and massively increasing their wealth through the Financial Dignity® Movement.
In this episode, Christine shares:
- How we learned to interact with our family of origin, with those experiences forming our money blueprint at an extremely young age (around 7!);
- How that may affect our interactions with money, and therefore our relationships, too;
- How to create awareness about your money mindset + the questions to ask to learn about your spouse’s money mindset; and,
- A nifty trick to stop emotional online spending.
When you uplevel your self-awareness and understanding, you’ll be better able to navigate financial tension, manage each other's triggers, and problem-solve amicably!
Read the full show notes, snag Christine’s links, and find out more at https://ahkcoaching.com/podcast
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