https://www.theamberrenee.com/how-to-get-off-on-not-having-the-money-to-spend/
And if you’re thinking “ok yes I love this kinky perspective of getting off on my scarcity, but how can I shift it for good so I can make more money?”
How to get off on NOT having the money to spend (when you want it so bad!)
Release Date: 10/14/2024
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info_outlineNext time you’re shopping and you want something SO bad but you don’t have the money for it right now, try this kinky practice:
Feel and get off on the erotic tension between you and what you want (but can’t have).😈
Feel the desire for it without getting to have it.
Feel that tension…that scarcity…that deprivation as erotic.
As pleasure.
Feel the longing but not having...
This is a mindset but it’s also an embodiment practice.
Let yourself try on the sexy dress and feel the desire for it.
Feel the part of you who’s trapped in the bondage of “I don’t have enough money and I don’t get to have what I want.”
But instead of feeling it as bad, wrong, unwanted, negative and painful to NOT have what you want…
See if you can delight in it.
Get off on it.
Find pleasure in it.
Experience it as a kinky game between you and money.
Why?
I’ve helped thousands of women with their eroticism and money over past decade and this is what I’ve noticed:
When we can shift the energy around something that usually feels usually heavy, painful and dense.
And make it feel more light, fun, playful, humorous…sexy even…
We change how we perceive that thing (aka money).
We change how it feels.
We change our relationship to it.
We change our experience or it for good.
Therefore, we can take swifter, more potent and consistent action because it doesn’t feel all heavy, scary, shameful and charged.
I’ve found that using playful energy, kink, erotic games and humorous, dramatic, theatrical rituals and practices can shift someone in a matter of seconds or minutes.
Because it creates true freedom.
The bondage isn’t that you don’t have money.
The bondage is that you feel scarcity around money.
It’s the deeper feeling that keeps you trapped.
So try this out next time you’re out shopping.
Listen to the podcast episode below to get the FULL practice and red hot kinky philosophy behind this sexy practice.
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