Episode 220: The Women Are Not Okay | A Conversation About the Male Gaze
Release Date: 04/15/2025
Episode 246: What Women Don't Get | Part Two
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In a podcast season devoted to talking about change, it makes sense to revisit some previously covered topics to see whether there’s been any. In Episode 246, Cynthia and Susan take another look at a foundational ALSSI discussion: What Women Don’t Get In Our Church. What’s the official messaging for Latter-day Saint women now, and does it reflect movement? Are we going forward? Backward? Nowhere? And do current narratives around women and our relationship to priesthood reflect actual progress...or not?
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Episode 245 (Bonus): Re-Acknowledging the Elephant | A Conversation About Polygamy with The Faithful Feminists
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Every four years, D&C 132 comes around for study again. If you ask a Latter-day Saint woman what she keeps on her metaphorical faith “shelf,” there’s a good chance polygamy will be there. It’s mostly ignored in contemporary church conversations and teachings, a murky doctrine wrapped in a historical wound that continues to fester, easier to ignore than to heal. Many friends and family members won't even share their true feelings about it with each other. But what are the consequences of our silence around polygamy? How long can we collectively carry this enormous weight we...
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Episode 244: What About the Word of Wisdom? | A Conversation with Linda Hamilton
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Though Section 89 of the Doctrine & Covenants describes itself as a “principle with promise,” “to be sent by greeting, not by commandment or constraint,” contemporary Church leadership has elevated some of its prohibitions to the level of requirement for temple worship. Other suggestions this section contains seem to be completely ignored. To complicate things, current medical research hasn’t always supported the specific tenets that have been designated “commandments.” No wonder lots of Latter-day Saints have lots of feelings about the Word of Wisdom and its application in...
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Episode 243: Embracing Your Journey | A Conversation with Whitney Call
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Each Latter-day Saint’s path looks different, a combination of unique experiences, choices, and challenges. No matter how insistent our culture may sometimes feel, no woman fits in a mold. “I think my life began with holding dissonance,” explains comedian Whitney Call. “I grew up in a very faithful LDS family...but a little squidgy around the edges. We would go to church and activities every week, and we’d watch the Simpsons together on Sunday nights. We’d bear our testimonies to each other, and we used crude humor about sex.” In Episode 243, Cynthia and Susan are joined by...
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Episode 242: Are You There God? It's Us, Susan and Cynthia | Part 2
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No matter what language we use to describe the Divine, for spiritual seekers the hope is that our understanding and connection will continue to expand and deepen. As Richard Rohr reminds us, “God is always bigger than the boxes we build for God, so we should not spend too much time protecting the boxes.” In Episode 242, Cynthia and Susan take another look at the spaces where their own ‘god-boxes’ used to be: It’s two women getting personal about what’s new, what’s not, and where and how they’re seeking communion and/or communication now.
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Episode 241: Demystifying Mysticism | A Conversation with Kathryn Knight Sonntag
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Was Joseph Smith a mystic? Searching for the term ‘mysticism’ on the Church website yields, “See: False Doctrine, Sorcery, Superstitions; Traditions of Men.” So it’s no wonder many church members haven’t thought much about mysticism—the role it may have played in Joseph’s experience, or how it might inform their own everyday lives or transform their spiritual practices. But poet Kathryn Knight Sonntag describes it differently: “Trusting the groundless ground, trusting that the darkness or the chaos or the unknown place actually is deeply full of knowing and love and purpose....
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Episode 240 (Bonus): Navigating Transitions 4 | ALSSI Listener Stories
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We can't get enough of these stories! Bonus Episode 240 features more ALSSI listeners answering the question, "What triggered your faith journey?"
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Episode 239: Let's Talk About Enmeshment | A Conversation with Dr. Julie Hanks
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“Differentiation of self is being a unique individual while maintaining connection with people you love,” explains Dr. Julie Hanks. “We've been trained, particularly as women, to be enmeshed—to feel other people's pain for them. And that does no one any good. It doesn't help them, and it doesn't help us.” On Episode 239, Dr. Hanks joins Cynthia and Susan for a conversation about enmeshment. It has been a core theme in her 30 years of practice as a therapist in Utah, working with families in which “the boundaries are not clear at all and everything's everyone's business.” So...
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Episode 238: Embracing Your Journey | A Conversation with Lindsie Cornia
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“With always wanting to do the right things, take care of people, and people please, this set me up perfectly to be an all-in member. Doing the formula. Hustling! I was married in the temple to a returned missionary, had 4 children, and did everything I could to be a good, righteous LDS woman,” explains Lindsie Cornia. Those lines might be the beginning of a million stories in our church, but if there’s one thing to be learned from ALSSI, it’s that every woman’s path is unique and evolving. So what happened next? In Episode 238, Susan and Cynthia have a conversation with Lindsie...
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Episode 237: The Invisible Labor of Women | A Conversation with Christine Pagano
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“There’s no roadmap for how to do partnership in patriarchy, at least within our little Mormon frame of reference,” explains Christine Pagano. “Patriarchy believes that men’s time is finite—there’s only 24 hrs—while women’s time is infinite. It’s unlimited. [...] Moms are carrying the load of domestic labor, invisible labor, emotional labor, and relational labor at much higher rates than their male partners.” But it’s not just at home: Within our church organization, women “are tasked with immense emotional, spiritual, and relational labor without equal voice,...
info_outlineHow much in the Church is still, in 2025, coming to us through the male lens? Pretty much all of it. Our scriptures, doctrine, ward boundaries, curriculum, conference talks, local leadership, and decisions are almost entirely by and/or about men. A women’s organization made and presided over by men is not really a women’s organization, is it? How could men ever describe or define women—our roles, attributes, or experiences—not as they see us, but as we actually are? In Episode 220, Cynthia and Susan wrap the season of zooming-out conversations by examining how the male gaze continues to shape and distort women's religious experience.