284. How I Fixed My Teen, book reading CH. 2
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Release Date: 09/09/2025
304. Belief 2: You Don't Need Them to Change First
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
What if the thing you’ve been waiting for your teen to do… isn’t actually the thing that has to happen first? Most parents live in a quiet, exhausting loop of “If they would just…” If they would just try harder. If they would just care. If they would just stop lying, yelling, shutting down, or blowing everything off. We keep waiting for them to change so things can finally calm down. And somehow, the longer we wait, the worse it gets. In this episode, I share the belief that flipped everything on its head for me — and for hundreds of parents I’ve coached. It’s one simple...
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303. Belief 1: Your Future Doesn't Have to Look Like Your Past
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Welcome to a six part series, outlining the exact process to shift your parental struggles to find the connection with your teen. Today we begin with step 1: Your Future Doesn’t Have to Look Like Your Past Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “This is just what our relationship will be”… or bracing with “Here we go again” when the same fight starts up for the hundredth time? A lot of parents quietly start believing the story that nothing can ever change. That they’re too burnt out, too set in their ways, too far gone to fix what feels broken. I believed that story too—until...
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302. What Your Teen Wished You Knew
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Tea time! This weeks episode is unique in that I've have direct feedback from teens on hurtful parenting behaviors. I was told things that they would never tell you- does any of it fit your parenting patterns? Listen to find out. "Why do my parents think this way and are so bothered by me?" "What can be said to make you(my parents) like me more?" "I am not build-a-bear. If you can't accept your kids how they are, then don't have them." "My mom told me I was a brat" These are a few things that were shared with me. It broke my heart and I want to support these kids by supporting you. Lets...
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301. Assuming the Worst While Parenting
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most common (and sneakiest) patterns in parenting: assuming the worst. I see it all the time. And yes—I do it too. It shows up in the little moments. Like when your teen doesn’t answer your text for an hour and your brain instantly goes to: They’re ignoring me. They’re mad at me. They’ve been kidnapped. (Meanwhile, their phone is dead and they’re happily eating nachos with friends.) Or when they sigh at something you said and suddenly you’re spiraling into, They don’t respect me. They hate living here. This entire family is...
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300. The Over-Loving Parent Trap (and How to Step Out Gracefully)
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
If you’ve ever thought, “I just want to love my kid and have them let me!” — this episode is for you. Many parents find themselves chasing their teen’s affection, bending rules, overgiving, or trying to buy closeness with gifts and favors — all in the name of love. But instead of feeling more connected, they end up tied in emotional knots, walking on eggshells, and quietly wondering why they’re getting less respect, fewer conversations, and more distance. It’s painful, confusing, and it can make even the most devoted parent feel rejected. In this episode, I’m unpacking why we...
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299. Healing Apathy in Your Teen, with Alma Galvan
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Your motivated kid turned into a teenager who doesn't care about anything. Now what? It's heartbreaking watching your once-enthusiastic child become indifferent to grades, goals, relationships - everything that used to matter to them. You're probably wondering if you did something wrong, if it's just a phase, or if there's any way back to the kid you remember. In this eye-opening interview, we dig into the real story behind teenage apathy and what parents can actually do about it. What We Cover: The fear driving both you and your teen (and why it paralyzes everyone) How the way you see...
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298. Worrying About Your Teen
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
If you’re a parent who lies awake at night mentally running through worst-case scenarios, overthinking every decision your teen makes, or trying to prevent every possible meltdown, mistake, or danger—you’re not alone. Parental worry is universal. And it’s exhausting. In this episode, I’m breaking down why we worry, what it’s actually doing inside our brains and bodies, and how that worry—despite our best intentions—often lands with our teens as pressure, distrust, or emotional distance. We’ll talk about the psychology behind parental anxiety, how teens interpret our constant...
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297. 5 Steps to Stop Nagging and Get Buy-in from Your Teen, with Marielle Melling
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Nagging your teen never works—but what if you had a framework that did? In this episode of Pivot Parenting, I sit down with author and parenting expert Marielle Melling to talk about how parents can finally get on the same page with their kids without the endless power struggles. We unpack why nagging backfires, how to soothe the discomfort that keeps families from healthy communication, and the secret to meeting everyone’s needs in ways that actually strengthen family bonds. Marielle also walks us through her key questions that help parents see themselves and their teens more clearly—so...
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296. Protecting Harm with Connecting Conversations, with Jason Reid
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Today I’m talking with Jason Reid about one of the hardest parts of parenting: having real, honest conversations with our kids about the things nobody wants to bring up. The messy things. The scary things. The things we hope aren’t happening—but often are. Jason shares his family’s story of losing his 14-year-old son to suicide, and the gained wisdom he's sharing with all of us. He reveals the number one mistake we simply cannot afford to make as parents, and how small shifts in our conversations can genuinely protect our kids. This isn’t an episode about fear—it’s about clarity,...
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295. Teenage Loneliness Epidemic
Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges
Teenagers today are more “connected” than ever—and also more alone than ever. In this episode, I break down what researchers are calling a teenage loneliness epidemic and how it’s quietly shaping our kids’ emotional, social, and spiritual health. Large global studies show that about 1 in 9 adolescents worldwide report feeling lonely “most of the time” or “always.” Long-term data also shows that by 2018, high loneliness levels in adolescents had nearly doubled compared to 2012. In the U.S., young people hold some of the highest loneliness rates of any age group, with one...
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