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35 - I am Not Sorry

B-RAD with Brad Toews

Release Date: 03/26/2019

50 - Source to You show art 50 - Source to You

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It is the dynamic interplay between spirit and matter that provides the flow of energy in my own life, and I believe, this is the spiritual movement of the whole universe.

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49 - Imagine That show art 49 - Imagine That

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Literalism helps us explain the world. Know the world. Name the world. But it bumps up against its limits when it meets a more powerful tool of language - metaphor. What does this look like in the context of the Christian faith?

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48 - Unknowing God show art 48 - Unknowing God

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Our claims to knowledge (what we know, how we know, the extent of what we know) changes over time. At least it does if we're growing and evolving.

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47 - Past Lives show art 47 - Past Lives

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We all have past lives, a collection of moments, strung together that make us who we are.

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46 - Something to Say show art 46 - Something to Say

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I'm learning how to communicate better, both on this podcast and in my personal and professional life. I'm learning I have Something to Say, and how to say it.

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Something about the shift in season, summer turning to fall and kids back in school, inspires an air of possibility for new habits and making change in your life.

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44 - Follow You show art 44 - Follow You

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I have a strong tendency and bias to depend on outside information and inputs, constantly seeking more knowledge to inform my choices.

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43 - When Marriage is a Let-down show art 43 - When Marriage is a Let-down

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An interview my wife Dawna about her perspective on expectations, disappointments, and the let-down’s of life, in the context of marriage and our closest relationships.

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42 - Find your Frequency show art 42 - Find your Frequency

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As if integrative medicine, transcendent spiritual experiences, and quantum physics weren't interesting enough in exploring energy and frequency, let's add harmonics theory to the mix.

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With a world population on the cusp of eight billion people (unbelievable!), I sometimes wonder if my single life matters. One person out of eight billion hardly seems significant.

Does my presence matter?

Do I deserve to exist?

I live in Canada, the 14th least densely populated country on earth. We have lots of land and few people. We probably have room for some of those billions, as long as they don’t mind all the rocks and trees and trees and rocks and water… (cue Arrogant Worms song here.)

In addition to being known for our pristine wilderness and Tim Hortons, Canadians are notoriously apologetic.

“Sorry” seems to be part of the Canadian identity. We make fun of ourselves for being this way. We apologize for being sorry. (Like how much more ridiculous can we be?)

I don’t want to overthink this too much, or take away part of our national identity, but the frequent use of the phrase “I’m sorry”, from a Canadian or otherwise, might be a clue about an individual’s sense of worthiness more than a guilty reaction about one’s offensive behaviour.

Definitely there are moments when personal responsibility requires an earnest apology, and “sorry” is the appropriate word.

But a shallow sorry (“Sorry I’m standing next to you in the Tim Horton’s line”) is like apologizing that you exist.

Don’t ever apologize for the space you occupy. It discounts what you have to offer, and it rules out what others are able to receive.

You don’t have to be sorry that you exist here as one in nearly eight billion that currently live on this blue-green planet.

You are worthy to be here as an individual.

We are worthy to be here as the collective.

Even if you’re a Canadian.

Join me for this episode if you question the value and contribution of your one life in the many, if you find yourself apologizing for your existence, and if you’re ready to embrace the truth that you’ve got nothing to prove and nothing to defend.

Show notes, links, and other resources at Brad Toews.