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I Feel Inadequate to talk to my Children about Jesus (#75)

Heart Focused Parenting

Release Date: 03/24/2024

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#75:  Feelings of inadequacy can stop Christians from sharing gospel with children.  Learn to distinguish conviction from condemnation and how to be in a place where you can confidently talk to your kids about Jesus.

 

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