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Get Your Emotions Out of the Driver’s Seat

Shark Theory

Release Date: 08/12/2025

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In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor Barbee tackles one of the biggest roadblocks to success—your own emotions. Through stories ranging from carnival mirror mazes to marathon running, Baylor explains how emotions can distort reality, lead to overreactions, and cause you to burn unnecessary energy.

Instead of letting feelings steer the course, Baylor shares how to keep emotions in the passenger seat, view situations through a clearer lens, and maintain consistency to reach your goals faster and more efficiently.

Key Takeaways:

  • Emotions Distort Reality: Like funhouse mirrors, they change how you see yourself and your situation—often in ways that aren’t accurate.

  • Your Perspective Can Change Overnight: New information can make past situations look completely different.

  • Stay in the Middle Ground: Don’t let the highs carry you away or the lows keep you stuck—consistency wins.

  • Efficiency Beats Excitement: Extra emotional “mileage” wastes time and energy without moving you closer to your goal.

  • Put Emotions in the Passenger Seat: Let them support you, but don’t let them drive.

Notable Quotes:

  • “The number one Goliath most of us face isn’t a person or obstacle—it’s our own emotions.”

  • “Opinions aren’t facts. That means you can change them.”

  • “Don’t ride the highs too high or the lows too long.”

  • “Most of us aren’t where we want to be not because we’re not capable, but because we’re doing too much.”