There Are Levels to This
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What feels like “good enough” is often the very thing keeping you from your next level. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor shares lessons learned from playing a round of golf with , one of the top Junior Golfers in the Country. What stood out was not just skill, but the way greatness thinks, plans, and removes unnecessary risk. From how shots are approached, to how tools are used, to how mistakes are managed, Baylor breaks down why progress is not about trying harder but thinking deeper. There are levels to every craft, every goal, and every season, and growth requires an...
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The Long Race You’re Already Running
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If you’re so focused on the finish line that you miss the moment, you’re running the race wrong. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor reflects on advice he gave to a first-time marathon runner and how it applies far beyond racing. When the journey is long and unfamiliar, obsessing over timelines can rob you of the very experience you worked so hard to earn. Baylor breaks down why rigid deadlines can sabotage momentum, why presence matters more than pace, and how learning to laugh, serve others, and embrace every season keeps you moving forward when things get hard. Whether...
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When the Delay Is Actually the Blessing
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Sometimes the thing you’re begging not to happen is the very thing that saves you. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor shares a real story from his trip to Costa Rica that almost didn’t happen the way it was supposed to. From a chewed-up passport to airport shutdowns and delayed flights, everything seemed to be going wrong. But those delays turned out to be exactly what he needed. Baylor breaks down why protecting what matters most is essential as you move into 2026, and why not every delay is a setback. Some obstacles are actually safeguards. Some frustrations are working...
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What You Remove Makes You Dangerous
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Growth doesn’t come from adding more. It comes from removing what’s dulling you. Episode Overview In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor reflects on a childhood memory sparked by an old photo and a pair of Jabot jeans. Back in fifth grade, walking to the pencil sharpener was a flex. But that memory turned into a deeper lesson. A pencil only gets sharp when something is taken away. That same principle applies to life. So often, we think improvement means adding more. More goals. More skills. More validation. More people. But real sharpness comes from subtraction. From removing complacency,...
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Just Make It to Tomorrow
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If today feels heavy, this episode is for you. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to make it to tomorrow. Episode Overview In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor speaks candidly about mental health, emotional weight, and the quiet battles people fight when the adrenaline wears off. Traveling to Costa Rica sparked reflection, not escape, and a reminder that sometimes the things we miss most are the anchors that keep us grounded. Baylor opens up about seeing friends and business associates impacted by suicide and acknowledges a hard truth. Early in the year, when...
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Stop Discounting Your Worth
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Sometimes nothing about you changes. The only thing that changes is where you are. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor uses a simple travel habit to unpack a powerful lesson about self-worth. Every time he travels internationally, he checks exchange rates. The same dollar that leaves the United States suddenly becomes more valuable the moment he lands somewhere else. Nothing about the dollar changes. The location does. That idea becomes the framework for a deeper conversation about feeling undervalued in life, work, and relationships. If you feel unseen or underappreciated, it...
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Why Finishing One Thing Changes Everything
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Being busy feels productive. Completion actually is. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor breaks down a word that’s shaping his entire year: completion. Not hustle. Not multitasking. Not being busy. Actually finishing things. We live in a culture that rewards motion more than results. Full calendars. Long to-do lists. Constant activity. But Baylor challenges the idea that busy equals productive and calls out one of the most dangerous traps we fall into: almost. Almost replied. Almost finished. Almost followed through. Almost feels like progress, but it produces nothing. Baylor...
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Mental Medals Nobody Can Take From You
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Sometimes the wins that matter most are the ones nobody else understands. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor shares a personal win that might seem small to the outside world but meant everything to him. Two weeks into learning piano, he earned an official music certificate that normally takes three to four months to achieve. And even with advanced degrees and professional accolades behind him, this moment hit different. Why? Because it was hard. It mattered. And it was something he did purely for himself. Baylor breaks down why personal pride is one of the most overlooked...
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Stop Watching Life and Start Living It
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If you’re not careful, you can spend your entire life consuming screens instead of actually living your own story. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor tackles a reality that should stop all of us in our tracks. We wake up staring at a phone. We work staring at a computer. We relax staring at a TV. Then we fall asleep staring at our phone again. Day after day. Screen after screen. And the danger isn’t technology itself. The danger is losing control of your attention, your thoughts, and ultimately your life. Baylor breaks down how easy it is to become a spectator in your own...
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Purposeful Steps Win Every Time
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Sometimes the advantage you need isn’t more strength, more size, or more effort. It’s knowing how to use what you already have. Show Notes In this episode of Shark Theory, Baylor shares an unexpected lesson from a massage experience that turned into a powerful reminder about leverage, mastery, and intentional action. At first glance, the situation didn’t make sense. A bigger body, a smaller masseuse, and a request for deep pressure. By all appearances, the odds didn’t line up. But what followed was one of the most precise and effective massages Baylor had ever experienced. Not because...
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Show Notes — “Stop Helping Everyone Except Yourself”
In this episode, Baylor exposes one of the most overlooked forms of burnout: being the reliable one. The fixer. The hero. The go-to problem solver.
The people pleaser.
It sounds noble. It feels selfless. And you may genuinely believe you're just “helping.” But Baylor breaks down how people-pleasing often turns into a subtle, dangerous cycle where you're pouring into everyone else and leaving yourself empty.
He explains how the biggest question every people pleaser must ask is:
“Is this truly helping, or am I just supplying the fuel for someone else’s laziness?”
You’ll hear Baylor unpack why lazy people naturally gravitate toward reliable people, how “emergencies” magically become your problem, and why the person who always helps is rarely the one who gets helped in return.
Then he goes deeper:
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How reciprocity reveals someone’s true intentions
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Why “thank you” doesn’t always mean gratitude
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Why being dependable becomes your identity
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How manipulation hides inside convenience
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Why the fear of disappointing others keeps you stuck
Most importantly, Baylor challenges you to stop making everyone else the priority—and finally make the person in the mirror your first obligation.
When you do that, you don’t just help yourself… you actually start helping the right people in the right ways.
What You’ll Learn
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The hidden burnout cycle of people pleasers
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How to identify one-sided and non-reciprocal relationships
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Why lazy or unmotivated people always find “the reliable one”
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How to know if you're genuinely helping or being used
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Why your identity becomes tied to fixing others
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How to reclaim your time, energy, and self-respect
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Why the person in the mirror must get the best of you
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How to set boundaries that protect your peace and purpose
Featured Quote
“You are a people too—stop pleasing everyone except the one in the mirror.”