The 5 Effort Mistakes That Keep You Stuck (No Matter How Hard You Try)
Release Date: 04/09/2025
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
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NEXT STEPS: MY BESTSELLING BOOK 📕My book Confidence-Maxxing: How to Crush Awkwardness, Build Social Confidence, and Become Unforgettable is an Amazon bestseller, and reviewers call it "Atomic Habits for People Skills" and "The new How To Win Friends and Influence People". PRIVATE COACHING 💬 I’m the Secret Weapon Top Performers at Google, Netflix, and the US Army Trust for People Skills Coaching. Imagine What I Can Do for You. - 🎯 Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results - 🎧️ Grab my free audio guide on...
info_outlineAre you putting in effort to get better socially... but still feel stuck?
If you’re an overthinker, this might sound familiar:
👉 You’re applying effort—but not seeing the results you want.
👉 You feel like you're doing the right things—but progress is slow.
👉 You’re trying—but something’s not clicking.
That’s not a sign you should give up. It’s a sign that your effort might be getting stalled in one of five traps that slow down your progress:
✅ You’re not practicing often enough
✅ You’re practicing in places that don’t challenge you
✅ You’re focusing on the wrong skills
✅ You’re using the right skills in the wrong situations
✅ You’re doing the right things—but your beliefs are secretly holding you back
In this podcast episode, I walk through each of these five effort mistakes—and give you simple, specific ways to fix them.
🎯 So if you’ve been frustrated with slow progress…
🎯 Or if you want to finally start seeing results you feel in real conversations…
Go listen now. This one’s for you.
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QUIZ - Do you know what your communication style is? Take this quiz and get a custom report based on your results.
AUDIO GUIDE - Grab my free audio guide on group conversations here (Includes word-for-word scripts)
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