The Bold & Courageous Leadership Podcast Episode 16: Bearing Good Fruit, a Review of Necessary Endings
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Release Date: 07/21/2016
The Bold and Courageous Leader Podacst Episode 34 - Is Your Glass Half Full or Half Empty?
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Today’s podcast is focused on living with joy in today’s world. How do we maintain a positive outlook, an attitude of well-being in this time of dissension and negativity in the social media stew with which we are constantly bombarded? Must we leave it all behind and not interact on social media or interact with any news programming? Enter Positive Psychology, the scientific study of the strengths that enable individuals and communities to thrive. Martin Seligman founded this field in the 90’s on the “belief that people want to lead meaningful and fulfilling lives, to...
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The Bold and Courageous Leader Podcast Episode 33- Having a Thriving Life: An Interview with Debbie Luxton, Author and Life & Leadership Coach
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Join us on today’s podcast for an interview with Debbie Luxton, author of the upcoming book, Choose to THRIVE: Conquering Your Inner Conflict. Life Purpose is really about Impact. Debbie works with and writes for strong-willed women of influence. She relates to them, because she is one. They are: Naturally gifted to lead – problem solving, decision making, Immense desire to add value. This blessing can become a curse. She says, “The good things started to own me. I ended up trying to be who I thought I was supposed to be instead of myself Priorities...
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The Bold and Courageous Leader Podacst Episode 32: 7 Lessons Learned from a Hurried Facebook Post
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Lessons Learned from a Hurried Facebook Post This podcast is a little different than any I’ve ever done. I get real about a hurried social media post and the lessons I learned from not doing things in an intentional way. I was working on a new, improved elevator speech, but not just any old elevator speech. That’s great, but I definitely made some big mistakes in the process of asking for feedback. Here’s where I went wrong. Here’s where the train went off the tracks. Here’s where I want you to learn from my mistakes. I posted a request for feedback in a...
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The Bold and Courageous Leader Podcast Episode 31 - 5 Tips for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
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Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Join us this week as we explore Imposter Syndrome. What is it? How do I know I’m dealing with it? How do I overcome it? What is Imposter Syndrome? Imposter Syndrome is a general feeling that we’re going to be found out, we don’t belong, what others see in us we are not capable of. Amy Cuddy, author of Presence, defines imposter syndrome as “That general feeling that we don’t belong—that we’ve fooled people into thinking we’re more competent and talented than we actually are. … It’s not simple stage fright or performance anxiety;...
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The Bold & Courageous Leader Podcast Episode 30 - Overcoming Challenges to Reach Your Goal
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Overcoming Challenges to Reach Your Goal An Interview with Crystal Balas As we move into the New Year, this interview with Crystal Balas is great motivation to achieve your goals. Since we talked, Crystal has trained for and completed the World Vision Chicago Marathon. AND she’s already registered to compete in it in 2017. Crystal Balas describes herself as an Overcomer. She has gotten up and moved forward through many challenges in her life. After a career change, today she is a Christian Life & Leadership Coach, Personal Trainer and Exercise Instructor. She...
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The Bold & Courageous Leader Podcast Episode 29- 4 Keys to Organizing Your Work Life
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As we start the new year, many of us want to get our organization on. Whether it’s purging the paper and stuff that has piled up over the holidays or making a decision that you just can’t stand the way your closet looks any longer, organizing is top of mind for many at this time of year. We’re bringing back Liana George’s interview from this summer to help you organize effectively, so you can start the year off with more space, physical and emotional, in your home and life. Liana George is a Professional Organizer and the owner of By George Organizing Solutions. She works one on...
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The Bold and Courageous Leader Podcast 28 – Start the Year with Intention – Investing Your Life Redux
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As we move from 2016 to 2017, many people make New Year’s resolutions. They take stock of where they’ve been and what they’ve accomplished. In light of this process, we share this podcast redux, featuring Rhonda and Andee reviewing Andee’s results for the assessment, Where Are You Investing Your Life? We discuss Priorities, Observations, Strengths and Weaknesses, Insights and the importance of Action Steps. As you move into the New Year, we invite you to take the assessment yourself. What will you find and how will this shape your new year? (And if you’re...
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The Bold and Courageous Podcast Episode 27: Peaceful Relationships- a Holiday Redux
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You Can have Peaceful Relationships Holiday Redux: an Interview with Rosemary Losser Today’s podcast is a redux of our interview with Rosemary Losser, conflict management specialist. With the holiday season in full swing, conflicts within families are often heightened. We bring you this re-broadcast of Rosemary’s interview as our Christmas gift to you. We wish you holiday gatherings where conflict isn’t a dirty word, but an invitation to grow into more of who God created each person to become. The Bold and Courageous Leader podcast team; Andee Marks, Dean Heid, Jill Lammi and...
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The Bold and Courageous Leader Podcast Episode 26: Faith, Work & Technology: A Conference Reflection
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Have you ever experienced that much of what you learn from a conference comes from outside the time spent AT the conference? That’s definitely been my experience of the Faith and Work Conference. The value of attending a conference is in: New Information New Connections New Insights and Awareness At the Faith & Work Conference 2016, I learned a great deal of new information. The conference is hosted by the Center for Faith & Work, connected to Redeemer Presbyterian Church. Rev. David Kim is the Executive Director. The center focuses on...
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The Bold and Courageous Leader Podcast Episode 25- Create Intentional Space for What Matters Most
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Join us for a wide-ranging conversation with Teresa McCloy, solopreneur effectiveness coach. Teresa started out as a serial entrepreneur. She then moved into full-time ministry for over 15 years. In the last few years she’s returned to her entrepreneurial roots, joining her husband on the family grain farm. She’s also obtained certification as a Spiritual Director and is working on Coaching Certification. This is how she describes her recent journey; “In the past year I have discovered my passion in the field of coaching which is really what I have been doing all...
info_outlineIn this podcast, Rhonda and Andee discuss the three kinds of pruning described by Dr. Henry Cloud and how that benefits us in life.
Initial Thoughts
Our culture isn’t good at endings.
“Pruning a bush means making hard decisions about proactive endings,” Dr. Cloud says. This is the same process we need to go through in determining where we need to prune in our lives.
3 Kinds of Pruning Needed to Reach Your Vision
- Healthy buds and branches that aren’t the best ones. We have to evaluate relationships, activities, and obligations to determine which need to be pruned so we can thrive. We have to say No to the good so we can say Yes to the best.
We must ask ourselves the question, “What does it mean to say something is good vs. best?”
- Sick or diseased branches are an energy drain on the plant. They can infect the plant or hold down production. It’s the same way with us. We have a finite amount of time and energy. Pursuing endeavors that are unable to produce good fruit is counterproductive. Future Fruit depends on pruning away things that are sick or diseased.
When we prune away those things that don’t provide results, we can invest our time and energy where we make the biggest difference. THIS is where we can make the biggest Kingdom difference.
- Dead branches take up space needed by healthy branches. New growth has to twist and turn around old branches. Old limiting beliefs need to be replaced with the truth of honoring, valuing and living into your strengths. We need to view our strengths as the strengths they truly are, not weaknesses.
Pruning old outdated activities, connections, meetings and email lists can give you space in your inbox, calendar, and mind. Removing these helps you be more productive in the space you’re in today.
We tend to shy away from pruning; it sounds really painful. However, if we’re willing to go through the process, we can produce some beautiful fruit.
Resources mentioned in today’s podcast:
Necessary Endings, by Dr. Henry Cloud