6: Overcoming Patriarchal Stress Disorder with Dr. Valerie Rein
Release Date: 04/09/2021
309: Season 3 Wrap Up
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8: Nurses Get Burntout Too with Jeanelle Classen, RN
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Many of my interviews speak from the perspective of doctors and the challenges we face in our professions. Another, very different, type of experience that happens right alongside us as doctors, is that of our nurses. I chat with Jeanelle Classen about her journey as a nurse and the emotional roller coaster it took her on. After facing burnout in her grad year of nursing and the overwhelming feelings of guilt and angst that the career brought her, she needed to make a change and find a way to rid herself of burnout and help others nurses like her. For those of you in the medical field,...
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7: Write Your Own Story with Rebecca Fleetwood Hession
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6: Investing with Ronnie Shalev, MD
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When we escape the clutches of burnout and take the time to look back on what actually caused it, we are often shocked to see that we were surviving in burnout mode for several years. In this episode, I talk with Dr. Ronnie Shalev who shares her story about how burnout started to creep in on her just two short years after her residency. And in true physician, nose-to-the-grindstone fashion, she continued her career with the white coat for a decade afterward. Dr. Ronnie shares how she got her start in real estate while performing as an emergency physician and how it provided her with the...
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5: Mindful Living with Dr. Sogol Pahlavan
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Realizing that you’re smack dab in the throws of burnout doesn’t always happen when things start to look like they’re going awry. For many of us, our lives look absolutely pristine from the outside while we’re floundering on the inside looking for an escape from the life we’re living. Dr. Sogol joins me on this episode and we talk about her experience with burnout that happened right at the height of her career as she had achieved everything on the list of the “American Dream.” Sometimes, reconciling with burnout is taking a step back from everything we think we should be...
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4: Normalizing Burnout with Dr. Debbie Bradley
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3: Options with Dr. Karen Wolowick
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1: Burntout to Badass Season 3 is HERE!
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11: Season 2 - That’s a Wrap!
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info_outlineWhen your body starts mimicking the symptoms of a stroke, you know that there is something seriously wrong. Dr. Valerie Rein was working and moving and constantly on the go when one day her body just stopped. She shares her burnout story and why she feels that for women burnout goes beyond individual experience.
It wasn’t until she was laying in the hospital and still working since she could get more done away from her phone that she knew something was wrong. First, that she was still working despite having a potentially life threatening condition. Second, that she was there at all.
Her experience led her on a path toward mind-body trauma healing that has truly transformed her life and others. She has been a leader on exposing the existence of intergenerational transmission of trauma, specifically when related to women.
For millennia women have been oppressed. Oppression is a traumatic experience. Women across the world carry this trauma around as it has been passed down in our DNA.
This conversation was fascinating but what’s even more fascinating is that there is evidence-based, scientific data available to back up the existence of Patriarchal Stress Disorder in women. Listen in to learn more and definitely grab a copy of Dr. Valerie’s book!
“A Woman has always been punished for power or reaching for her authentic desires.” Dr. Valerie Rein
In this episode:
[01:41] Welcome to the show, Valerie!
[02:06] Her background, the question that defined her life and her work in the world.
[06:02] Dr. Valerie speaks about a woman sharing that she was upset that she didn’t have covid.
[06:47] What burnout looked like to her.
[10:13] She wanted to know what kind of trauma we could all have that we weren't aware of.
[13:02] “It doesn’t matter how successful I am, if I don’t feel safe, my body is going to keep reacting to this.”
[17:16] Dr. Valerie reflects on the feather moments she had.
[20:06] Community is the bond that sets all the exercises and changes into place.
[24:12] Connection is a basic human need.
[26:15] Learn about the two major depression episodes she had.
[29:01] Her mission is to take part in a shift in reality.
[31:56] Thank you for being on the show!
Links and Resources
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