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The Smell of Fear

Business Concern

Release Date: 01/09/2024

Where to Find Help show art Where to Find Help

Business Concern

As the owner of a small to medium size business, you may have felt the need to ask for help but not felt comfortable doing so. Owners of businesses are often skilled in the business they own and enjoy the respect of their family and friends. If their businesses are successful (profitable), it is usually based on their leadership and good fortune. But things change and sometimes the successful are faced with difficulties and even poor results. The humility it takes for an owner to recognize that business is a team effort and that the policy-making group of a business needs help is a principal...

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Creation of Wealth for Business Owners show art Creation of Wealth for Business Owners

Business Concern

Among the common goals of members of a capitalistic economy is the creation of wealth. This is often a reason why people own businesses. For an individual, the concept of wealth creation is the escape from dependence on earning funds for current expenses to live a certain lifestyle to building up assets and resources that appreciate over time and are of a magnitude to sustain that lifestyle or a better lifestyle without the need to earn funds for current expenses. Creation of wealth is a reference to accomplishing financial independence through the creation of passive income from investments....

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When Planning Becomes Dynamic show art When Planning Becomes Dynamic

Business Concern

Traditional planning is static. If there is a written plan, we see the plan formulated, documented in writing, presented at a meeting, and then put on the shelf to be consulted for next year’s retreat. This is the opposite of a forceful and changing dynamic plan. A dynamic plan can accomplish continuous improvement in business performance over time resulting in increased profitability. How does a static plan become dynamic? The answer is in the format of the plan. To be forceful a plan must be understood and implemented at all levels of the business – operational as well as management. The...

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The Concept of Time – How Its Progression Affects Important Tasks show art The Concept of Time – How Its Progression Affects Important Tasks

Business Concern

The Concept of Time – How Its Progression Affects Important Tasks Time is the progression of events from the past to the present into the future. Time marches forward relentlessly. From birth to death, we age, and every moment that passes is unique and unrepeatable. The more important tasks we accomplish within our lifespan, the more fulfilling and impactful our lives can be. But what defines "important"? Is it happiness? Recognition? Pursuing a passion? How we define, or not define, “important” has a great deal to do with how we spend the time of our life span. I believe in defining...

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Pay Attention to What is Important show art Pay Attention to What is Important

Business Concern

In the new year make sure you pay attention to what is important but not urgent. This is the time to make resolutions – that process involving review of the past year and resolving to do something different in the new year. It is a given that urgent but not important matters often replace important but not urgent matters in the time allocation of business owners. This diverts the owners from accomplishing important long-term tasks such as obtaining maximum value for their business interests. To pay attention to what is important you must prioritize paying attention to what is important by...

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Important Accomplishments show art Important Accomplishments

Business Concern

As a business owner imagine how it would feel at the end of the year to look back and realize you have reached one or more important accomplishments. You used your values to create a strategy. You set a goal at the beginning of the year. You created a plan to act to accomplish the goal. You executed the plan by acting to reach the goal. The feeling would be one of satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment. For most owners this feeling of satisfaction will not be possible. Most will not have articulated their values and created the strategy to set the goal. Some will not have published the...

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Establish a Profitable Business – Do Not Stop There! show art Establish a Profitable Business – Do Not Stop There!

Business Concern

No one said it would be easy. If you are the owner of an interest in a business which has become profitable, you and your team have done something right and it probably was not easy. Moreover, it will not be easy to keep your business profitable. What follows is a chart for the failure rate year by year from a LendingTree analysis of U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics data ().   Time Frame Percentage of Failure Within 1 year 23.2% After 2 years 32.8% After 3 years 36.2% After 4 years 43.2% After 5 years 48.0% After 6 years 52.9% After 7...

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Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda show art Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda

Business Concern

The idiomatic phrase – shoulda, coulda, woulda – conveys the feeling you as the owner of a business might have in three years. Ok, “Could've, Would've, Should've” is a Taylor Swift (and Aaron Dessner) song. But it derives from the phrase often written as “shoulda, coulda, woulda.” The combination of the meaning of each – should conveying correctness, could conveying possibility, and would conveying a thwarted intention – yields a meaning of the uselessness of looking back or looking for excuses. Pat Riley, President and former coach of the Miami Heat and the Los Angeles Lakers...

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“No One Wants to Buy a Job” show art “No One Wants to Buy a Job”

Business Concern

The quote is from Mordecai Evans who is the Lead Advisor for Business Acquisition Advisors, LLC located in Augusta, Georgia. Mordecai went to work for a pharmaceutical company after graduating from Clemson. His passion for entrepreneurship and sales led him to becoming a broker with a business brokerage firm. Recently, Mordecai formed his own merger and acquisition firm, Business Acquisition Advisors. Rick asked Mordecai to do a Zoom interview about his experiences with the small to medium size business market. What follows is a summary of that conversation. Rick began by asking about what the...

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Thinking About Who Will Buy My Business show art Thinking About Who Will Buy My Business

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If you are thinking about who is going to buy your business, you have already dealt with the significant core perception necessary for business strategic planning: that inevitably, voluntarily or involuntarily, with good results or bad, you will transfer your business interest. The reality check for the owner-manager of a business is the perception of and planning for the inevitable transfer of the business interest. Coming to this realization is the basis for the Prior Diligence strategy. The owner and the business will separate, the principal unknown factor is when and what happens to...

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What feeling do you have when you see something different in the workplace? What about encountering a new experience? What if someone suggests something that is “off the wall?” Is someone laughing when you do not know what is funny making you feel left out? Do you have an impulse to make fun of something that is new or different? Is your response to deride someone or something new or different? Realize that when your reaction to change is emotional and results in derisive actions, often that reaction is based on fear.

 

I once had a trial lawyer friend of mine tell me that he knew he was doing well in the courtroom when the opposing lawyer started raising his voice. He smelled the fear.

 

Wild animals are most dangerous when cornered and afraid. You can smell the fear. The remedy for the situation is to back off so the animal no longer fears being cornered. Most wild animals when given the chance will simply run away.

 

Many of the traits associated with arrogance, such as acting in a derisive manner toward people who are different or rejecting out of hand suggestions offered that are new, are actually ways of masking fear of inadequacy. Actions displaying arrogance often come from someone feeling cornered and attempting to hide concerns about one’s ability. You can smell the fear.

 

Contrast that with the actions of a humble person who has respect for the thoughts and feelings of others. The person who exhibits kindness and respect toward people representing change shows confidence and courage. These actions do not mean that there is agreement or acceptance of any given situation, but it does support an opportunity for dialogue that is necessary in a group decision-making environment. Where respect is the basis for communication, you cannot smell the fear.

 

When I am in situations where people are being derided or new ideas are being ridiculed, I can smell the fear. What I ask is: where is the fear coming from? What is the inadequacy that is being masked by abusive behavior? How can these fears be addressed? Realize that these actions are acts of cowardice and fear. Try to understand where the fear is coming from and address those concerns. Allow space for understanding by modeling the humility, courage, and confidence that should replace the fearful actions.

 

Unfortunately the reaction to boorish and aggressive behavior is often anger, which leads to a mirroring of the boorish and aggressive behavior. The urge is to be aggressive and corner the person who is acting out. It is better to recognize the fear causing the arrogant behavior and act in a humble way to allay it and foster future and more productive communication.