26 - You Don’t Need to Quit Life — You Need a Strategy
Collective Guidance with Charla Goodnight
Release Date: 12/17/2025
Collective Guidance with Charla Goodnight
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info_outlineCollective Guidance Ep 26: You Don’t Need to Quit Life — You Need a Strategy
Host: Charla Goodnight
Guest: Gina Ramirez
00:00 – Introduction
Charla opens the episode discussing the feeling of wanting to “quit life” and the importance of pivoting instead of giving up.
00:30 – About the Show
Overview of Collective Guidance and what listeners can expect from the podcast.
00:53 – Episode Recap & Guest Introduction
Charla recaps the previous episode with Gina Ramirez, a women’s health coach and yoga instructor.
01:27 – The “I Want to Quit Life” Feeling
Charla shares a personal story and acknowledges the common feeling of overwhelm.
02:25 – The Myth of Balance vs. Alignment
Gina’s perspective: There’s no such thing as perfect balance—focus on alignment and micro-tweaks instead.
04:14 – Identifying Your Top 3 Priorities
How to reflect your true priorities in your calendar and life.
05:21 – Taking Inventory Regularly
The importance of checking in with your schedule and energy multiple times a year.
06:26 – Quarterly Check-Ins
Charla’s method for breaking the year into quarters and planning ahead.
07:37 – Body Check: How Does It Feel?
Gina’s advice to check in with your body before saying yes to commitments.
08:12 – Can You Have It All?
Discussion on having a fulfilling career and personal life, and the necessity of delegating.
09:42 – Letting Go of Perfectionism
Why it’s okay to let others help, even if it’s not perfect.
10:49 – Pivoting Without Blowing Up Your Life
How to make small, strategic changes instead of drastic ones.
12:37 – Setting Boundaries
Communicating new boundaries with family, friends, and coworkers.
13:30 – The Five Life Accounts & Daily Deposits
Gina’s framework for maintaining mental, physical, social, spiritual, and career well-being.
14:25 – Stress as an Automatic Withdrawal
How stress impacts all areas of life and the importance of daily deposits.
15:25 – Real-Life Example: The Power of a Walk
A client’s story of using a daily walk to nurture all five life accounts.
16:15 – The Power of Breathwork
How breathwork can quickly reset your nervous system and reduce stress.
17:14 – Breathwork Practice
A simple breathing exercise you can use anytime.
18:27 – Recap & Action Steps
Charla summarizes the key takeaways and offers actionable steps for listeners:
- Name your top 3 priorities
- Compare them to your calendar
- Take quarterly inventory
- Make daily deposits
- Delegate one thing
20:28 – Where to Find Gina Ramirez
Links to Gina’s website, program, and social media.
21:30 – Closing Thoughts
Charla’s encouragement to pivot, breathe, and remember what matters most.
22:08 – Outro
Thank you message, social links, and invitation to subscribe and share.
Resources & Links:
- Gina Ramirez: wellnesswithgina.com
- Instagram & LinkedIn: @wellnesswithgina
- Program: “A Woman’s Guide to Intentional Living”
- Collective Guidance: collectiveguidance.com
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