The idea of reparenting yourself can feel overwhelming — especially if you grew up having to take care of yourself emotionally at a young age.
In Episode 5 of 6 in the Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents series, we break down what reparenting actually means, what it does not mean, and why this work is meant to be gentle — not perfect.
Reparenting isn’t about fixing your parents, erasing the past, or doing everything on your own. It’s about learning how to offer yourself the emotional safety, validation, and attunement that may not have been consistently available growing up.
In this episode, we explore:
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What reparenting yourself really is
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Common misconceptions that make this concept feel intimidating
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Why receiving care — even from yourself — can feel unfamiliar or uncomfortable
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How self-abandonment shows up when care once came with conditions
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What reparenting looks like in everyday, real-life moments
This episode isn’t about doing more or getting it right.
It’s about beginning to relate to yourself with compassion and curiosity.
🌱 Gentle Reflection (Homework)
This week, try one small act of self-connection:
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Pause and ask, “What do I need right now?”
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Validate an emotion instead of minimizing it
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Offer yourself reassurance during discomfort
If it feels awkward or unnatural, that’s okay.
Awareness comes before ease.
🎧 Up Next: Episode 532 — Integration & Moving Forward: Living Beyond Survival