The Hidden Pressures of High Achievers (and How to Stay Balanced)
Release Date: 10/09/2025
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info_outlineWhat happens when a professional athlete turns her lived experience into a mission to transform the mental game for the next generation? In this episode of Channel Your Genius, Mellissa Seaman interviews Danielle McDonough — a former Division I and professional hockey player turned Mindset Optimization Coach. Danielle now helps athletes and parents build confidence, resilience, and mental strength that extend far beyond sports.
They dive into the hidden pressures young athletes face, the toll of tying identity solely to performance, and the powerful tools that support both athletes and parents in navigating high-pressure seasons with more balance and joy.
Talked about in today’s episode:
✅ Danielle’s journey from college and pro hockey player to mindset coach and author of The Empowered Athlete
✅ The invisible barriers athletes face and how mental performance tools help them break through faster
✅ Why nurturing multiple identities beyond sports prevents burnout, stress, and depression
✅ The importance of rest, recovery, and giving athletes (and adults) time to miss their sport
✅ Hidden stressors like tryouts, recruiting decisions, and waiting periods and how they affect athletes and families
✅ Tools for parents to regulate their emotions and better support their kids in sports
✅ Simple but powerful practices like box breathing to calm nerves and reset the nervous system
Guest Bio:
Danielle McDonough is a former Division I and professional hockey player who has transformed her own challenges and victories into a career helping athletes thrive. With a Master’s in Sport & Exercise Psychology, she now works as a Mindset Optimization Coach supporting athletes and parents to build confidence, resilience, and mental strength. Danielle is the author of The Empowered Athlete, and she serves as the official mental skills coach for USA Hockey’s National Development Camp.
Through her programs, Danielle teaches practical mental performance tools that not only elevate athletic performance but also create balance, identity, and confidence in life beyond sports.
Resources & Links:
🎧 Listen to Danielle’s free private podcast: Winning Resilience: Beating Teen Sports Stress
🌐 Website: www.ocppt.com
📖 Book: The Empowered Athlete
📷 Instagram: @danielle__mcdonough
💼 LinkedIn: Danielle McDonough – Mindset Coach & Author
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Keywords:
mindset coaching, sports psychology, youth athletes, confidence, resilience, identity beyond sports, parenting athletes, mental health in sports, performance mindset, athlete burnout, rest and recovery, box breathing, Danielle McDonough, The Empowered Athlete