Episode 208: Christian-ish Podcast: 3 Signs That Relationship is Not Aligned
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Ever prayed, "God, remove who’s not for me"... and got an answer way quicker (and messier) than expected? In this episode, Keshia dives into three powerful (and often uncomfortable) signs that a relationship isn’t aligned with your purpose—and what to do about it. In This Episode: Why "just being uncomfortable" is often all the confirmation you need What the "ick" really means (and why you shouldn’t ignore it) How your body may be trying to tell you it’s time to walk away Real-life stories of divine redirection (like hives from a boyfriend... literally) The truth about growing...
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Christian-ish Podcast: How to Stop Overthinking in Dating
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Dating shouldn’t feel like a mental chess game. If your mind is constantly replaying texts, tone, and timing—this one’s for you. Keshia shares how to stop overanalyzing and start dating from a place of peace, trust, and actual joy. In This Episode: Why high-achieving women tend to overthink in dating (and how to undo it) How to shift from analysis mode to connection mode The truth about anxiety vs. reality in relationships Why your worth is not defined by a man's attention How to date with clarity instead of control Dating Homework: Journal this: "Am I reacting to reality or...
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Christian-ish Podcast: Five Green Flags in a Relationship
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Let’s talk about what’s right in a relationship. While everyone’s busy pointing out red flags, what about the signs that you’ve actually found something real? In this episode, Keshia breaks down five powerful green flags to look for when you’re dating—with practical examples that’ll change the way you discern your next relationship. In This Episode: How emotional intelligence makes a man safe to connect with Why self-awareness is sexier than you think—and a major sign of maturity The secret power of being with someone who’s simply easy to be around What it really...
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Christian-ish Podcast: Dying to What No Longer Serves You
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Ready for a bold shift? If you want to attract the love, life, and relationships you’ve been praying for, you have to be willing to die. This episode is all about letting go of the things that no longer serve you—and yes, that includes breaking unhealthy relationship patterns, societal expectations, and even old mindsets. In This Episode: The spiritual concept of "dying daily" and how it applies to your life and love life Why you can’t serve two masters—and how it’s impacting your relationships Letting go of the idea that a man will complete you or make you happy The societal...
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Christian-ish Podcast: It’s Time to Look in the Mirror – God is Using Your Relationships to Show You Yourself
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This isn’t the episode Keshia planned—but it might be the one you needed. If you’ve ever found yourself attracting emotionally unavailable partners, inconsistent friends, or draining connections, it might be time to pause and ask: what is God trying to show me about myself through these patterns? This heart-to-heart is a holy wake-up call. In This Episode: How every relationship is a mirror—and what it’s reflecting back at you The connection between inconsistent people and your own self-abandonment Why discipline and self-trust are spiritual practices, not just...
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Christian-ish Podcast: Stop Creating Relationships Out of Struggle
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You are not meant to suffer your way into love. In this episode, Keshia Rice breaks down one of the biggest relationship traps women fall into—forming friendships and romances rooted in shared pain instead of shared purpose. If you’re tired of bonding over brokenness and calling it connection, this episode is the reset you didn’t know you needed. In This Episode: Why "trauma bonding" isn’t always what you think—but still dangerous How we unconsciously build relationships off struggle and chaos The toxic comfort of vent culture (and what it’s costing you) Why elevated...
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Christian-ish Podcast: A Different Way To Think About Boundaries
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If you've ever set a boundary, then broke it five minutes later... this episode is your invitation to pause, reflect, and rebuild—starting with you. Keshia Rice, dating coach and hypnotherapist, dives into why the hardest boundaries to keep are the ones we set with ourselves—and why those are the ones that matter most. If you're tired of self-sabotaging, ghosting your own growth, or choosing the same emotionally unavailable men on repeat, this episode will help you reset from the inside out. In this episode: The truth about boundaries (and why "just block him" isn’t enough) How...
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Christian-ish Podcast: Unhappily Ever After — What Married Women Wish They Knew Before Saying ‘I Do’
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Marriage doesn’t fix loneliness—and a ring won’t heal unaddressed wounds. In this eye-opening episode, Keshia Rice breaks down what no one talks about when it comes to long-term commitment: the silent epidemic of unhappily married women. Keisha shares real-life insight from decades of church community, family counseling, and her own experience as a wife and coach. Whether you’re single and serious about marriage or already dating with purpose, this episode is your pre-marital check-in—with love, truth, and no sugarcoating. Inside this episode: What growing up seeing long-term...
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Christian-ish Podcast: TheWizardLiz and What Women Get Wrong About Dating Advice
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This one’s a mix of real talk, holy discernment, and a reality check on the fairytales social media keeps selling you. In this episode, Keshia Rice unpacks the viral news of TheWizardLiz’s husband cheating and uses it to reveal a much deeper issue: the misinterpretation of dating advice, especially in the online "soft life" and hypergamy space. You’ll hear why it’s dangerous to glamorize relationships instead of grounding them in real healing, self-worth, and discernment. In This Episode: Why "dating up" doesn’t work when a man is emotionally unavailable The trap of believing a...
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Christian-ish Podcast: Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men (Even When You’re Doing "Everything Right")
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Are you doing everything right in dating—but still attracting men who ghost, breadcrumb, or won’t commit? You're not crazy. You're not too much. You're just stuck in a cycle you were never taught how to break. In this episode, we’re talking about: ✔️ Why emotionally unavailable men keep finding you ✔️ The hidden patterns no one talks about (including in the church) ✔️ How to finally shift your energy, your standards, and your results Whether you’re a high-achieving Christian woman who’s ready for real love—or just done with dating drama—this conversation will help you...
info_outlineIn this episode of CHRISTIANISH Podcast, Dating Coach and Hypnotherapist Keshia Rice breaks down what it really means to decenter men. While social media is full of talk about rejecting relationships, many women are still unknowingly making men the center of their lives. Keshia explains why true decentering isn’t about avoiding love—it’s about making yourself the priority and only allowing relationships that align with your values.
Keshia shares:
✨ The one question you need to ask yourself to stop chasing relationships
✨ How unhealed wounds (validation, security, father figures) shape your dating patterns
✨ Why balancing your masculine and feminine energy changes everything
✨ The key to attracting a healthy, fulfilling relationship—without settling
When you give yourself what you’ve been seeking, love becomes a choice, not a necessity.
Listen to the full episode on Keshia’s website or subscribe to Christian-ish Podcast on iTunes and Spotify.
Ready to identify your unhealthy relationship patterns and heal them once and for all? Schedule a call with Keshia https://calendly.com/keshiarice/cherished
More Resources:
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Take Back Your Power: A Journal to End Self-Sabotage https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/l/selfsabotage?layout=profile
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Ditch the Deadweight - Heal from a Breakup in Six Weeks https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/l/breakupguide?layout=profile
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Explore expert coaching and empowering courses by Keshia on Gumroad.
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Stay connected with Keshia on Instagram: instagram.com/keshiarice.
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Heal from past relationship trauma by booking a consultation: Schedule here.
- Need extra support? Get 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp using Keshia’s special link: BetterHelp.