Episode 224: Christian-ish Podcast: Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing
Release Date: 11/13/2025
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💡 In This Episode:
Why soft-launching relationships is a thing—and why it might not be the best choice
The difference between dating for fun vs dating for commitment
How to know if you’re settling (and why you shouldn’t)
The importance of boundaries and having standards in the dating world
What “embarrassing” really means when it comes to relationships
How to handle the pressure of social media opinions
🚫 Red Flag Reminder:
Don’t be afraid of ending things with a man who isn’t showing up as your “purpose partner.” If he’s not ready to commit to you, it’s time to move on—no shame in that game.
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More Resources:
- Take Back Your Power: A Journal to End Self-Sabotage https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/l/selfsabotage?layout=profile
- Ditch the Deadweight – Heal from a Breakup in Six Weeks https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/l/breakupguide?layout=profile
- Explore expert coaching and empowering courses by Keshia on Gumroad: https://keshiarice.gumroad.com/
- Heal from past relationship trauma by booking a consultation, schedule here https://calendly.com/keshiarice/cherished-feminine-dating?month=2024-04