Have Hard Conversations & Live beyond People Pleasing with Christine Hernandez
Release Date: 07/01/2025
Parenting with Purpose: Money Talks with Adriane Cook
You Me and Money
In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendelton joins Adriane Cook's Podcast "Empowered Puberty for Girl Mom" as a guest speaker. Together they discuss the challenges of parenting and financial literacy, particularly focusing on how to teach children about money in a meaningful way. They explore generational money struggles, the importance of modeling financial conversations, and the significance of giving and generosity. The discussion emphasizes the need for a heart-centered approach to money management, encouraging parents to reflect on their own money stories and values to better guide their...
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Money, Faith, and the Journey to Fulfillment
You Me and Money
In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton explores the intricate relationship between money and faith, sharing REAL and personal experiences of struggle and transformation. She discusses how her journey through financial difficulties and a tumultuous relationship with alcohol led her to a deeper understanding of spirituality and purpose. The conversation highlights the importance of redefining success beyond monetary achievements and recognizing the role of faith in personal growth and fulfillment. Don't forget about this amazing free offer from Jordan. She put a lot of time and effort...
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Iyla & The Penny
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In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton shares a personal story about her daughter and a lesson learned about money and attachment. Through a playful day at the splash pad, she reflects on how children perceive money and the emotional responses tied to loss and attachment. She draws parallels between children's interactions with money and adult behaviors, emphasizing the importance of a healthy relationship with money, the concept of abundance, and the need to let go of fixation on material loss. The discussion encourages listeners to reflect on their own financial mindsets and the lessons...
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What is Financial Coaching?
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In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton explores the concept of financial coaching, sharing her journey from being a financial advisor to becoming a financial coach. She discusses the importance of understanding one's relationship with money, the emotional aspects of financial management, and the four pillars that underpin effective financial coaching. The conversation emphasizes the need for clarity, direction, and emotional regulation in managing finances, while also highlighting the moments when individuals may seek the help of a financial coach. Don't forget about this amazing free...
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The Hidden Costs of Alcohol
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In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton delves into the multifaceted impacts of alcohol on personal finances, relationships, and emotional well-being. She shares her personal journey of healing and self-discovery, highlighting the intertwined nature of alcohol consumption, financial habits, and relational dynamics. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, cultural influences, and the need for support in navigating the complexities of alcohol use and its effects on life. Don't forget about this amazing free offer from Jordan. She put a lot of time and effort into this...
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Smart Spending Lessons with My Daughter
You Me and Money
In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton shares some thoughtful insights from a shopping trip with her daughter, Iyla. Together, they explore the idea of intentional spending, the emotional side of shopping, and why it's so important to set limits. Jordan reflects on how, sometimes, adults can act just like kids when they're in stores, getting swept up in the thrill of impulse buys and excitement. Their discussion highlights the need to recognize the difference between wants and needs, the value of setting a budget, and how crucial it is to teach children about financial literacy and emotional...
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Reflecting and Recharging: A Look Ahead
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In Today's Episode... Jordan Pendleton takes a moment to reflect on the challenges of the past few months, including dealing with family health matters and the vital importance of stepping back and taking breaks. Looking ahead, she previews the upcoming discussions centered around premarital conversations, the effects of alcohol on finances, and the significance of spirituality in relationships. Jordan emphasizes the need for open discussions about money and relationships, aiming to prepare the next generation with the tools for healthier financial habits and stronger connections. ...
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Empowering Women in Finance with Ed Vargo
You Me and Money
In Today's Episode... In this conversation, Ed Vargo shares his unique journey as a male financial advisor working with women, influenced by his mother's struggles with financial literacy during her divorce. He discusses the significant differences in how men and women engage with money, emphasizing the need for women to take an active role in financial discussions within relationships. Ed advocates for bridging the financial literacy gap for women, particularly younger women, to empower them in their financial decisions and align their spending with their values. In this conversation, Ed...
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Financial Secrets and Infidelity with Hanna Morrell
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In Today's Episode... In this conversation, Jordan Pendleton and Hanna Morrell explore financial infidelity, discussing its definition, causes, and impact on relationships. They highlight the importance of communication about finances, the pitfalls of advice given to couples, and the need for understanding and patience in addressing financial secrets. The discussion emphasizes creating a safe space for financial conversations, developing effective communication skills, and fostering trust in relationships. They stress the significance of grace, connection during difficult times, and...
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The Power of Financial Differences
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In Today's Episode... In this episode, Jordan Pendleton explores the complexities of financial habits within relationships, emphasizing the importance of embracing differences rather than seeking similarities. She discusses common misconceptions about marrying someone with similar financial tendencies and highlights the growth opportunities that arise from navigating financial differences. The conversation encourages couples to view their financial dynamics as a chance for refinement and teamwork, ultimately leading to a healthier relationship with money. Don't forget about this...
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Jordan sits down with long-time friend, entrepreneur, and coach, Christine Hernandez to discuss the importance of having hard conversations and how being nice and people-pleasing can hinder personal growth and relationship outcomes. They share their personal experiences and insights on the topic, highlighting the need for authenticity, effective communication, and the difference between being “nice” and being “kind.” They also touch on the role of control and manipulation in difficult conversations and the importance of practicing and integrating these skills into daily life. They emphasize the difference between sacrifice and compromise, and the need to build trust through honest and vulnerable conversations. Lastly, they explore the role of blame in relationships and the power of taking ownership and focusing on personal growth. The episode highlights the importance of having a vision for the future and the potential for growth and connection stemming from hard conversations.
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At Impact Initiative, we specialize in Leadership Development and Coaching, Team Dynamics, and Culture Building. We become your ally, offering tailored Leadership and People Development strategies across your organization. Our approach is personalized, fitting seamlessly into your unique business flow and addressing your specific challenges.
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