Finance and Romance: Managing Money When One Partner is the CFO - with Dean Ensley
Release Date: 09/27/2024
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info_outlineIn today's episode, Anastasia is joined by a special guest--her husband Dean--to explore the intersection of finance and romance. Managing finances in a relationship has its challenges, especially when one partner takes on the role of the "CFO" while the other is more hands-off. We share our personal experiences of navigating money management together. We'll discuss how we decided who would take the lead in handling finances, the challenges and benefits of this dynamic, and how we maintain open communication and shared financial goals. Whether you're the primary financial planner or your partner is, we've got practical tips to help you create financial harmony in your relationship. Plus, we'll dive into lessons learned and even our dream financial superpowers!
Tune in to discover how to work together on building wealth while maintaining a strong partnership. Don't forget to leave a review or send us your questions at askcreatingwealth@taberasset.
Check out our previous related episodes:
Timing Matters: When to Merge Finances with Your Partner (May 2024)
How to Build Wealth With Your Partner (February 2023)