Ep. 25 - Anoreceptive Intercourse Patients 101 with Special Guest Dr. Stephen Goldstone

Join Biddy, Erin, Jon and Sam as they welcome special guest Dr. Stephen Goldstone for an insightful discussion regarding anoreceptive intercourse patient cases, conditions, communication and counseling strategies. 

(This episode contains explicit content and may not be suitable for general audiences)

SPECIAL GUEST

Stephen E. Goldstone, MD, FACS

Dr. Goldstone is an Assistant Clinical Professor in Surgery at Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York, a position he has held since 1987, and he has a surgical practice in New York City. He is a Fellow of the American College of Surgeons and a Member of the American Society of Colon and Rectal Surgeons. Dr. Goldstone’s clinical focus includes anal cancer, sexually transmitted infections, and human papilloma virus infections. He has developed a surgical technique to treat anal HPV-related dysplasia and is currently involved in testing both prevention and treatment procedures for HPV. He is a member of the AIDS Malignancy Consortium. He is President of the Albert Einstein College of Medicine Alumni Board of Governors. He resides in New York City.

Dr. Goldstone is known for his commitment that all patients “find a provider with whom they can talk and feel comfortable in bringing up their issues.” He is a member of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association where he has served in the past as a Board Member. “Whether someone is gay or straight, getting good medical care means being able to talk with your provider about your sexual practices and sexual fears. You have to be completely honest, because your sexual life is important to your overall health and well-being. If you’re having sex with multiple partners, then you need to discuss what kind of sex you’re having so your risk of STDs can be evaluated. There are many people who have same-sex partners but who would never say to a clinician “I’m gay” because they don’t consider themselves that way. What’s important to discuss is what you actually do when you’re intimate, not how you view yourself….. We do have rights as patients to expect quality care, dignity, and attention to our needs from our clinicians… Just tell your provider what you expect, and what you need to know.”

Dr. Goldstone is author of almost a hundred articles, as well as the book, “The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex: A Medical Handbook for Men” (1999). When he noticed how many gay men in his New York practice were ignorant about basic facts concerning sexually transmitted diseases and sexual practices, he responded by writing the book. He uses the time he has with every patient to teach about safe sexual practice and sexually transmitted diseases. Some patients are surprised by his frank discussions of topics usually kept “in the closet” by most doctors.

 

OUR CO-HOSTS

 

Biddy Das, MD, FACS
Houston, TX (Twitter @BiddyDas)

Dr. Bidhan “Biddy” Das has board certifications for both colon and rectal surgery, and general surgery. His passion for medical education and medical process improvement has resulted in book chapters and publications, and national and regional presentations on those subjects. Highlighting his medical expertise on fecal incontinence, he has been featured on patient education videos and national and international television and radio as a featured expert on these colorectal conditions. Dr Das also has a particular interest in surgeons redefining their careers -- he serves as both a software consultant and private equity consultant in Boston, New York City, and Houston.

 

Erin King-Mullins, MD, FACS, FASCRS
Atlanta, GA (Twitter @eking719)

Dr. Erin King-Mullins is a double board-certified general and colorectal surgeon. She graduated summa cum laude from Xavier University of Louisiana. After obtaining her medical degree at Emory University in Atlanta, she completed her internship and residency in general surgery at the Orlando Regional Medical Center in Florida. Her fellowship training in colorectal surgery at Georgia Colon & Rectal Surgical Associates concluded with her joining the practice and serving as Faculty/Research Director for the fellowship program until her transition into private practice with Colorectal Wellness Center. She has a husband with whom she shares an amazing, blended family of 4 daughters and one son. The kids keep them pretty busy, but their favorite times are spent on warm sunny beaches.

 

Jonathan Abelson, MD, MS
Arlington, MA (Twitter @jabelsonmd)

Dr. Abelson was born and raised in Scarsdale, New York in the suburbs of New York City.  He has 2 older brothers and both of his parents are dentists.  Dr. Abelson went to college at University Pennsylvania, took 2 years off between college and medical school to work in healthcare consulting.  He then went to medical school at University of Virginia, returned to New York for general surgery residency at Weill Cornell on the upper east side of Manhattan.  Dr. Abelson then did colorectal fellowship at Washington University in St. Louis and am now at Lahey clinic in Burlington, Massachusetts for my first job after training.  He is 2 years into practice and has a wife and two sons. His wife works in wellness consulting and they have a dog named Foster who we adopted in St. Louis.

 

Sam Eisenstein, MD
La Jolla, CA  (Twitter @DrE_UCSD)

Sam Eisenstein is an Assistant Professor of Colon and rectal surgery and director of Inflammatory Bowel Disease surgery at UC San Diego Health.  He has worked there for the past 8 years after graduating both residency and fellowship at The Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York.  Sam is best known as the founder and organizer of the IBD-NSQIP collaborative, a large multi institutional data collaborative examining outcomes after IBD surgery, but he also is involved in several clinical trials for perianal Crohn’s and has extensive experience with stem cell injections for anal fistulae. He is also on the scientific advisory board for the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation for his work on the next big IBD data collaborative, IBD-SIRQC (Surgical Innovation, Research and Quality Collaborative).  Sam has a Wife and 3 kids (6,8, and 3) and spends most of his free time running around after them these days, but also enjoys traveling and getting out into nature with his family.