How To Support Your LGBTQ-Identified Loved One Without Endorsing The Identity They Embrace {Eps 82}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Release Date: 01/29/2025
Lindsey Kiser - An Invitation To Join The Movement - There is an Army Rising {Eps 94}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Lindsey Kiser - a returning guest on The Bridge Between Us and author of is extending invitation to band together as the Psalm 68 army of women in the place of intercession to contend for our LGBTQ loved ones and the generations. “The Lord gives the word [of power]; the women who bear and publish [the news] are a great host. The kings of the enemies’ armies, they flee, they flee! She who tarries at home divides the spoil [left behind].” Psalm 68:11-12 For more information or to register: To purchase Lindsey's book: Previous TBBU episodes with...
info_outline
Anne Edward - A Story Of Hope and a Longing Fulfilled {Eps 93}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Do you ever feel that if you stop praying for your loved one they won't come to know Jesus or that God will stop pursuing your child? In today's Bridge Between Us episode, author and Executive Director of Restored Hope Network, Anne Edward, is joining Melinda Patrick. Anne has a story that hopefully will allow parents to take a deep breath and rest as they continue to trust Jesus for the outcome of their loved one. Melinda and Anne also talk about the importance of community and how you can find that through Restored Hope Network. Anne Edward--formerly Anne Paulk--is...
info_outline
Mark Nelson - When God Does the Miraculous - Part Two {Eps 92}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
info_outline
Mark Nelson - Words Matter: What Are You Speaking? Part One {Eps 91}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Have you ever wonder if what you say really makes a difference? In today's episode, Mark Nelson, Executive Director of , joins Melinda and shares an awe-inspiring testimony of God's powerful intervention in his life. Mark's testimony is fuls of Holy Spirit inspired moments that leave you wanting to know more. Listine in to discover: *how words spoken over Mark made a life changing difference for him *ways that we can speak life over our loved ones Connect with Mark: Next Week: Tune in as we Mark shares Part 2 of his transformation story. ...
info_outline
Being Your Own Advocate: Questions to Consider As You Create Your Support Team {Eps 90}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Welcome to The Bridge Between Us Podcast, where we navigate the challenges and opportunities of walking alongside LGBTQ-identified loved ones from a Biblical perspective. Hosted by Melinda Patrick, today’s solo episode is all about being your own advocate as you build a support team for your personal journey. In Today’s Episode, You’ll Hear About: The importance of a support system and how Jesus’ story of raising Lazarus teaches us that no one walks the journey alone. The need for Godly counsel and guidance in your healing process. Signs to look for that indicate you might need...
info_outline
Finishing Strong: The Power of A Good Support Team {Eps 89}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
God hasn't called us to walk through life alone. In today’s episode, Melinda takes us through what it looks like to set yourself up for success when facing a daunting challenge, and how the team around you plays a crucial role in getting you to the finish line. Listen in to hear the four key people you need on your team and why. As Melinda challenges listeners, it’s important to recognize and appreciate those who walk with you on your journey. A simple note, call, or text to show gratitude can make a huge difference. The support system you build along the way doesn’t just help you reach...
info_outline
Nate Oyloe - Pray the Gay Away: Is It Possible and How To Respond To Your Child When They Feel God Isn't Listening {Eps 88}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
For many parents, when their child shares with them they experience same-sex attraction or gender disphoria, one thing they will also hear is: "I have prayed and prayed and asked God to take it away but He hasn't." As parents, many of us have done the same thing: we have prayed and prayed and God doesn't appear to be answering. In today's episode, Nate Oyloe - ministry leader of , joins Melinda Patrick. Nate shares a portion of his own healing journey, but he also share how parents can respond when their child doesn't feel as though God is answering their prayers. In this powerful...
info_outline
Brandon Showalter- In the Trenches: Confronting the Battle of Gender Ideology {Eps 87}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
For Christian parents whose children have embraced an LGBTQ+ identity, the world is full of confusion, manipulation, and emotional pain. Watching your child go through gender confusion and irreversible medical procedures is heart-wrenching. Navigating this world feels isolating and often spiritually and emotionally draining. There’s a need for truth, empathy, and a support system that isn’t afraid to stand firm in God’s design for humanity. In this episode, Brandon Showalter, a passionate advocate for truth and a journalist for the Christian Post, is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between...
info_outline
Alex McFarland - Navigating Truth, Love, and the Culture Shift {Eps 86}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Hey friends, welcome back to The Bridge Between Us Podcast! In this episode, Melinda Patrick and her guest, Alex McFarland, dive deep into how we, as parents and individuals, can continue to hold firm to the truth amidst the changing culture and differing values between us and our children. Parents today are facing a culture that challenges traditional beliefs, especially around sexuality, identity, and values. Their children are growing up in a world where those beliefs often conflict with their own, and it can feel overwhelming and heartbreaking. How can parents stand firm in their...
info_outline
Mike Manzie- Processing Pain and Inviting Healing: Using the SHAPE Journaling Method for Christian Parents of LGBTQ-identified Children{Eps 85}
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBTQ-identified Child Without Compromising Truth
Mike Manzie, executive director of Fresno New Creation Ministries is joining Melinda on The Bridge Between Us podcast. In this episode, Mike and Melinda discuss the importance of processing pain and healing through a spiritual lens. Using the SHAPE journaling method, parents can take intentional steps toward healing and understanding, inviting the Lord into their emotional journey. This episode provides valuable guidance for parents navigating complex feelings while supporting their children in love and truth. Key Topics Discussed: Why time alone doesn't heal wounds – the importance...
info_outlineIn today’s episode, The Bridge Between Us host Melinda Patrick answers a heartfelt question from a listener:
How do I support my transgender niece without endorsing or condoning their choices?
If you’ve ever struggled with how to show love to a LGBTQ-identified family member while holding onto your personal beliefs, this episode is for you.
Melinda dives into the balance of loving well while staying true to your values, sharing practical and spiritual steps to help you show up for your loved ones without compromising your convictions.
Key Topics Covered:
-
Acknowledging the Hurt Without Endorsing the Path: Melinda addresses the delicate tension between showing love and acceptance, without affirming a lifestyle that goes against your faith.
-
The Importance of Loving Like Jesus: We discuss the significance of loving others in a way that reflects God’s love—sacrificial, unconditional, and without compromise. Melinda also shares a powerful scripture, 1 John 4:19, reminding us that we love because God first loved us.
-
Practical Ways to Support:
- See the Person Beyond the Label: Pray for God to help you see your loved one as He does.
- Engage in Their Life: Make an intentional effort to connect and be involved.
- Understand Their Love Language: Show love in ways that are meaningful to them.
- Be a Listening Ear: Listening isn’t agreement—it’s a sign that you see them, hear them, and care for them deeply.
-
Spiritual Support Through Prayer: Melinda encourages prayer as a vital part of loving well. Drawing from Oswald Chambers' insights on true intercession, we learn that prayer isn’t just about sympathizing—it’s about seeking God’s heart and perspective on the situation.
Closing Thoughts: Loving a transgender family member with non-endorsing support doesn’t mean withdrawing—it means showing up with love, prayer, and a heart that seeks God’s truth and grace.
Call to Action:
- Share this episode with someone who might need this encouragement.
- If you haven’t left a review for The Bridge Between Us, please consider doing so to help us reach more people.
- If you’ve read The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBYQ-identified Child's Heart, Melinda’s book, please leave a review on Amazon, Focus on the Family, or Goodreads. Each review helps families in need of guidance find the book.
Thank you for listening and supporting The Bridge Between Us podcast!
Restored Hope Network HOPE 2025 VIRTUAL conference:
https://www.restoredhopenetwork.org/hopeconf
Use code: EBHOPE2025 for the early bird discount by February 1.
Speakers:
Dr. Andrew Rodriguez- TBBU episode 45 with Andrew
Dr. Julie Hamilton
Dr. Anne Gillies
Jonathan Daugherty