Artist Pep Talk - Jealousy and Creating Your Own Opportunities
Release Date: 12/06/2023
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info_outlineHave you ever noticed the emotion of jealousy come up in your creative endeavors? Sometimes it can really wreak havoc with our creativity and ability to enjoy accomplishing our goals. Maybe you’ve been inspired by others who have gone before you, a successful artist or creator who has accomplished what you want to accomplish, and you find yourself wishing you had what they had.
If you’ve ever found yourself feeling jealous or less-than, wishing opportunities would come your way that other people seem to get, or even at a complete loss of what to do with the emotion of jealousy, you’ll want to learn and implement my framework of how to deal with jealousy in a healthy way.
Join me on today’s episode where I’ll show you how to tune into your jealousy, versus tune out so you can let its intelligence inform you how to create your own opportunities that will light you up.
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What You’ll Learn on this Episode:
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What to do with jealousy if you wish you had actionable tools to work with it.
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Why resisting or avoiding your jealousy doesn’t work and usually backfires.
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How to get instant relief from being jealous.
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The key to creating your own opportunities so you can move from ‘wishing’ to making yourself proud.
If you’re wanting to have an antidote to the venom of jealousy - and get back into the joyful flow of creation without worrying about what other people are doing - today’s episode is for you.
Creating your dreams takes courage and the willingness to dare greatly. I’m cheering you on.
Don’t let jealousy stop you or slow you down.
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Come check out the Dare Greatly Society.
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Book, The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
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