Cultural Perspectives on Sexual Desire with Dr. Sari van Anders

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In this engaging episode of The Hole Shebang podcast, host Kristen Parise welcomes Dr. Sari van Anders from Queen's University. Dr. van Anders shares her impressive academic journey, which began with a passion for teaching sex education to younger students and evolved into a career as a Canada 150 Research Chair at Queen's University. She specializes in social neuroendocrinology, sexuality, and gender sex, weaving these interests into a complex tapestry of research that includes feminist and queer science perspectives.

 

Dr. van Anders discusses her groundbreaking Sexual Configurations Theory (SCT), which aims to address gaps in traditional understandings of sexual orientation. SCT provides a framework that separates identity, orientation, and status, capturing the complexity of human sexuality beyond binary definitions. This theory is particularly useful for individuals whose identities do not align with conventional labels. Dr. van Anders and her team are developing materials for clinicians and educators to help them utilize SCT in practical settings.

 

Another significant topic covered in the interview is the societal impact on women's sexual desire, particularly in heteronormative relationships. Dr. van Anders challenges the notion that low desire in women is primarily due to biological factors like testosterone levels. Instead, she posits that gender inequities and cultural expectations play a significant role, affecting women's sexual experiences and desires. This perspective shifts the focus from individual issues to broader societal structures that influence intimate dynamics.

 

The conversation also explores Dr. van Anders' research on orgasms, revealing how these experiences are often viewed as achievements tied to gender roles rather than purely personal pleasure. Her work suggests that cultural expectations can distort relationships and sexual satisfaction.

 

Regarding pornography and sexual norms, Dr. van Anders acknowledges the branched nature of sexual fantasies, desires, and real-life experiences. Her research emphasizes that what arouses in fantasy or pornographic content doesn't necessarily align with in-person desires, highlighting the importance of recognizing and respecting these differences.

 

Throughout their discussion, Kristen and Dr. van Anders emphasize the power of open communication in relationships to navigate and challenge outdated sexual norms. Dr. van Anders is working on developing pragmatic tools and language around these issues for clinicians and educators to improve understanding and acceptance in various sexual and relational contexts.

 

For those interested in learning more about her work, Dr. van Anders' research and resources on Sexual Configurations Theory are accessible online, promising fresh insights and practical applications for those looking to deepen their understanding of sexuality and gender dynamics.