35: Unfuckwithable: The Art of Receiving with Haley Bowler-Cooke
Release Date: 05/15/2025
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info_outline"The art of receiving is everything. It's not another thing to do. It actually creates more easefulness in your life." — Haley Bowler
Episode Summary
Bestselling author Haley Bowler shares her journey from physiotherapy to becoming a channel for profound wisdom. She introduces "the art of receiving"—a practice that helps high-achieving women balance feminine and masculine energies. Through personal stories, including her near-death experience, Haley offers practical guidance on accessing "the dimension of openness" where manifestation becomes instantaneous and healing is profound.
Key Insights
From Physiotherapy to Psychic Channel
- Trained in kinesiology before discovering her psychic gifts
- Wrote "Unfuckwithable" through channeled wisdom
The Art of Receiving
- Balance of receptivity with empowered action
- Learning to receive while giving transforms everyday experiences
The Vulnerability Breakthrough
- Near-death experience in 2024 taught her to receive help
- "It was the best gift I could have ever asked for"
Holistic Success
- Success in just one area never creates true fulfillment
- "We have evidence through quantum physics that shows there's no separation"
Practical Tools
- Breathe Like You're Playing Hide and Seek: Slow, quiet breathing
- Lie on the Floor: Simple practice to attune to joy
- Radical Responsibility: The power of saying "I chose this"
- Thank You More Please: Shifting from extraction to reception
Chapters
00:00 - Introduction to Unfuckwithable
02:40 - Haley's Journey and Background
05:33 - The Art of Receiving
15:07 - Vulnerability and Personal Growth
25:34 - Holistic Success Paradigms
29:22 - Holistic Wellness and Success
32:05 - The Dimension of Openness
38:41 - Practical Steps to Connect with Your Body
42:59 - Radical Responsibility and Self-Care
46:27 - Theme Song and Personal Connection
Resources & Mentions
- Unfuckwithable – Haley's book
- Uplift Lifestyle – Haley's website
- The Pleasure Principle – Upcoming event
- Treat You Better by Rufus Du Sol – Haley's theme song
Connect with Haley
- Website: upliftlifestyle.ca
- Instagram: @uplift_lifestyle
- Email: [email protected]
Connect with The Hole Shebang
- Host: Kristen Parise, Pelvic Health Physiotherapist
- Blueberry Therapy
- The Pleasure Principle Conference
The Hole Shebang explores themes of personal empowerment, holistic wellness, and embodied wisdom.