Ep 46: 7 Step Process to Successfully Cope With Overwhelm in Divorce
Decoding Divorce
7 Step Process to Successfully Cope With Overwhelm in Divorce
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Ep 45: Why You Have to Complete Your Disclosure Documents in a Divorce
Decoding Divorce
Auditing your financial estate is an arduous task. However, it is vitally important that you understand why it is necessary that you complete your financial disclosure documents. In today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian explains the possible ramifications of not fully disclosing assets as you go through the divorce process. She demonstrates that failure to be completely honest, or even unintentional negligence in this matter can result in a loss of assets or having to restart your divorce process. Spending the time to put together a full financial audit,...
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Ep 44: The Difference Between Divorce Coaching and Therapy
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A divorce coach can be an invaluable asset to your support team as you go through this tremendous life change. Carefully selecting the people in your corner can help mitigate the pitfalls, emotional ups and downs, and financial mistakes often made throughout the process. In today’s episode, we do a deep dive into divorce coaching and the difference between a divorce coach and a therapist. Divorce coach and family law attorney, Zeppy Attashian explains that while you may decide that it’s best to have both on your team, divorce coaching provides you with the essential thought work and...
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Ep 43: What to Do If Your Ex Refuses to Give Up His Financials
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Financial knowledge is power, and we at Decoding Divorce want you armed with as much information as possible before each decision you’ll encounter in your divorce. But what do you do when your soon-to-be-ex refuses to voluntarily provide his financial information? In today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian walks you through the 6 step process to obtain access to your spouse’s financial information, so you can move forward requesting the support you need. If you’re looking for hands-on guidance as you complete this process, the divorce coaches...
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Ep 42: Busting the Myth That Divorce Means Failure
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In the wake of the celebrated author and motivational speaker Rachel Hollis’ announcement that she and her husband are pursuing divorce, they have seen an unprecedented societal pushback from their tribe. However, it needs to be said- divorce is not failure. In today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian explains that divorce simply indicates that a relationship or marriage has come full circle. She provides perspective on why stepping into the next stage of your life should not be framed as failure, but rather a proud and daring moment of transition....
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Ep 41: What to Do If Your Ex Is Threatening to Quit His Job to Avoid Support
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If your spouse is threatening to withhold financial support from you, it can feel as though you’re backed into a corner. However, temporary financial hardship and struggle it does not mean that you have to walk away from what you're entitled to from the marital estate. While it may take some time and some action steps on your part, there are laws in place to ensure that you get the financial support that your family needs. In today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian explains the legal ramifications of an ex withholding support or quitting a...
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Ep 40: How to Cope and Mend Your Broken Heart
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Attention ladies currently in the Broken Hearts Club… At Decoding Divorce, we know how difficult it is to think clearly and make the best decisions for you and your future if you are stuck in an endless whirlwind of romanticizing and missing your soon-to-be-ex. Some individuals have such a hard time letting go, it completely halts all of their divorce progress and keeps them from moving on to a bigger and better life. In today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian explains the science behind why you’re feeling heartbroken over the loss of your spouse, and three...
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Ep 39: How to Navigate Retirement Accounts in Your Divorce
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When it comes to finances in your divorce, knowledge is where your power lies. You may wish to pass off the responsibility of making decisions to a financial advisor or an attorney, but staying in the dark can be extremely detrimental to your financial future. While there are many financial aspects to consider when going through a divorce, in today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian takes an in-depth look at retirement accounts. She highlights the difference between a defined contribution account and a defined benefit account, along with the logistics and...
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Ep 38: How to Help Your Children Cope With Divorce
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When going through a divorce, your children’s emotions may feel impossible to navigate and even more difficult for them to understand themselves. You want what's best for your kids, but how do you help them through this change? In today’s episode, Divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian explains an emotional awareness and coping tool called the Zones of Regulation. She explains how zones of emotions are categorized by color, how to identify your family’s feelings each day, and how to use this information to know when to have important conversations. She also...
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Ep 37: How to Make the Best Decision You Can In Divorce Negotiations
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While you may feel deeply convicted about your requests in divorce negotiations, it is vitally important to your happiness and your future that you are able to remain flexible in your mindset. At Decoding Divorce, we often discuss the importance of entering into negotiations with at least three possible outcomes that would be acceptable to you. In today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian explores the concept of considering multiple professional perspectives to help you envision alternate outcomes for success- particularly in keeping or selling...
info_outlineIn today’s episode, divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian shines a light on one of the most difficult shifts your divorce will cause you to make- finding your authentic self.
Referencing Jen Hatmaker’s incredible book Fierce, Free, Fire, Zeppy explores why we lose our identities, compromise our personalities, ideas, and convictions in a marriage. She details how to get out of the mindset of shape-shifting into who your spouse wants you to be, and rediscovering and reclaiming who you truly are.
We at Decoding Divorce want to help give you a roadmap for giving back the titles that others have given to you, stop fitting into a mold, and start living according to what lights you up and gives you true courage through your divorce.
Book a call with one of our divorce coaches today to rediscover who you are.