DBM Ep 60: All Cried Out, Election 2024 & Morris Chestnut
Release Date: 11/01/2024
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There’s no deep intro for this episode. In this episode, we talk:
✨Which version of "All Cried Out" is best, Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam or Allure & 112
✨Election 2024
✨How God blessed us with Morris Chesnut's rise from Ricky to Cory Cash
WE HAVE RANGE! The way we move from levity to depth, Thea breaking down Joe Biden's scorpio tendencies to NeKisha connecting COVID to Zoom organizing to Crystal invoking Stokely Carimicheal’s definition of a revolutionary, is DEFINITELY a reflection of the times we are living in.
And the truth is we were with more questions than answers:
👉🏾What does it mean to burn it all down, and who will be the ashes?
👉🏾What does it mean to be an activist?
👉🏾No matter the election outcome, what are we committed to building?
What we know for sure, though, is MORRIS CHESNUT continues to bless us, and we are GRATEFUL!
& OF COURSE we got that #BlackMamaMagic #ElectionPlaylist
💗Black Mama Magic Card for this episode: Card #48 - Time Is Always Divine💗
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🎙️ DBM Ep 18: Deez Black Votes
🎙️DBM Ep 36: Election Shift - DBM + Shaping The Shift Mashup
🎙️DBM Ep 52: Black Women Organizing Hoes That Ain't Loyal Spiritual Political Cycles
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