Unseen Barriers to Accountability Caused by Chaotic Leaders
Dismantling Dysfunction
These days it's increasingly common to hear leaders describe themselves as "a little ADHD," citing high energy and impulsive decisions as both a strength and a challenge in their professional lives. The same traits, often seen in some of the most successful organizational leaders, drive innovation and quick decision-making but can also lead to chaos, confusion, and increased insecurity among team members. In this episode, we’ll help listeners understand the complexities of chaotic leadership and its impact on accountability, exploring how the dynamic interplay between resilience,...
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Unseen Barriers to Accountability Caused by Over-Nurturing Leaders
Dismantling Dysfunction
Have you ever noticed how some teams don't hit their targets, despite having leaders who seem really supportive and caring? Or maybe you've seen situations where everyone seems happy, but the actual work results just aren't there? If these situations sound familiar, you're not alone, and we've got just the topic for you in our newest podcast episode - Unseen Barriers to Accountability Caused by Over-Nurturing Leaders. In this episode, we're taking a close look at a trend where leaders, in their effort to avoid conflict and keep everyone (including themselves) comfortable, might actually be...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability Caused by Leaders Who Disappear
Dismantling Dysfunction
Imagine your team is on a tight deadline, but when you reach out to your leader for crucial feedback, they're nowhere to be found. Their office is empty, their Teams status says 'Do Not Disturb,' and there's no response to emails, DMs, or Messenger. This scenario is all too familiar for many, reflecting a leadership gap where guidance and support are needed the most. In today's episode, we talk about the challenges posed by leaders who disappear, leaving their teams to navigate obstacles without any direction. During the podcast, we explore the impact of leaders who disappear on...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability Caused by Leaders Who Bully
Dismantling Dysfunction
Picture this: you step into your workplace, a space where you spend most of your waking hours, only to face subtle threats, overt hostility, or being outright ignored by your leader. Instead of feeling supported, you have a leader who resorts to bullying behavior to either make themselves look good or to get things done. While some leaders believe behaviors like yelling and dressing you down for a minor mistake are a sign of strength, more often, it's about control and insecurity. So why does this happen, and why is it normal in many organizations? Usually, it's because of a lack of...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability: Shaming Employees into Poor Performance
Dismantling Dysfunction
Have you ever seen a spark of creativity extinguished by a single dismissive remark from a leader? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Dismantling Dysfunction, we talk about the unconscious shaming done by leaders and peers and reveal how this pervasive issue chips away at team morale and damages a culture of accountability. Imagine the chilling effect when a team member's bright idea is met with a "That's been tried before. Didn't you do your homework?" The room falls silent, the employee's spirit deflates, and a wave of discomfort spreads through the team. Join us as we discuss...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability Caused by Narcissistic Leaders
Dismantling Dysfunction
In the latest episode of "Dismantling Dysfunction," we delve into the significant impact of narcissistic leadership on workplace accountability. We highlight the unique challenges posed by leaders who exhibit narcissistic traits such as a grandiose sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy towards others. The discussion underscores how these characteristics lead to a toxic work environment, where credit hoarding, denial of mistakes, and gaslighting are prevalent. A key focus of the episode is the detrimental effect these leadership styles have on...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability | Part Six: Engaging for Growth
Dismantling Dysfunction
Leaders often miss crucial opportunities to engage meaningfully with their employees when reviewing performance, primarily due to a lack of knowledge or comfort in handling these sensitive discussions. Many leaders, uncertain about how to balance feedback with encouragement, may default to a more objective or critical approach. The discomfort leaders feel in navigating these conversations can lead to a transactional approach, where the review is treated as a checklist exercise rather than an opportunity for meaningful interaction. Reviewing performance is a pivotal moment where...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability | Part Five: Reviewing for Growth
Dismantling Dysfunction
Ever heard a leader say they skipped reviewing their employee performance because they “don’t have time” or because "Mercury was in retrograde"? While we all chuckle at the latter, there's an underlying truth we can't ignore - leaders often dance around performance evaluations, and in this episode, we unpack why. It's hard to believe, but some leaders sidestep evaluating their team's performance, opting out of what they view as a judgmental process. No clear expectations, no celebration of successes, no pinpointed development areas - just a pat on the back and a vague “good...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability | Part Four: Confronting for Realignment
Dismantling Dysfunction
Every leader has had to confront an employee's performance when a simple correction hasn't worked at some point in their career. It's part of the job. But when leaders mistake confrontation and consequences with punishment, they make the idea of a candid conversation even more daunting. Add to that the lack of training leaders receive to conduct an issue-resolution conversation about performance, and you get leaders going in the other direction – avoiding performance. Join us as we discuss how the lack of training leaders to confront performance leads to taking employee...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability - Part Three: Ensuring Alignment with Expectations
Dismantling Dysfunction
In the bustling corridors of a rapidly growing tech firm, CEO David found himself grappling with a dilemma. His teams were vibrant and intelligent, but something was amiss. Projects were lagging, and the quality wasn't consistent. At team meetings, David provided clear instructions, trusting that would suffice. Yet, when milestones were missed, he hesitated to step in, fearing confrontation. Does this sound familiar? In this podcast episode, we explore the challenges faced by leaders like David. Why do so many of us, despite our best intentions, shy away from setting clear benchmarks and...
info_outlineProcrastination and perfectionism – what a perilous duo for anyone suffering from Imposter Syndrome. But for those with an INTP personality type, it’s like a fatal blow! But why is that you ask? You see, the INTP personality type is characterized by an inquisitive nature and a desire to understand the world on a deep level. They value knowledge and expertise above all else, and they enjoy the challenge of intellectual debate and argumentation.
Here’s the kicker, though: their thirst for knowledge and their competitive nature often causes them to be extremely critical of their own work, constantly questioning whether they've done things "correctly" or whether their work is up to (their own) incredibly high standards. This can make them feel like they're not good enough or that they're "faking it" in their field, even if they have plenty of evidence to prove otherwise.
In today’s episode, we'll delve into the deadly duo of procrastination and perfectionism that plagues INTPs suffering from Imposter Syndrome. We'll explore how it can lead to a lack of confidence, difficulty forming connections, and even passive-aggressive behaviour. We'll also drop a gem for all INTPs suffering from the Imposter Syndrome that will help them escape the all-or-nothing trap that they may find themselves falling into too often for comfort.
Whether you're an INTP struggling with Imposter Syndrome, or you know someone who is, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you overcome these challenges in both your personal and professional life.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
● [1:48] Episode Introduction
● [4:52] Why Does the INTP Experience Imposter Syndrome?
● [11:19] Impact of Imposter Syndrome on INTPs
● [30:26] Episode Gem
● [32:00] Episode Wrap Up
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
· INTPs are known for their love of learning and exploration, which can sometimes lead them to procrastinate on tasks that they find uninteresting or uninspiring. When INTPs put off a task that they know they should be doing, they start to doubt their ability to do anything. This can lead to feelings of fraudulence or inadequacy as they start to question their own competence and ability to succeed.
· One of INTPs’ main coping mechanisms is becoming passive-aggressive and argumentative. They feel both defensive and protective of their knowledge and expertise. Passive-aggressive behavior causes them to engage in behavior that is intentionally undermining or resistant, creating a negative work or social environment, and limiting INTPs' ability to build meaningful connections and collaborate effectively with others.
· INTPs have difficulty sharing themselves and are notorious for keeping their thoughts and feelings to themselves, which can lead to a lack of curiosity about others' lives and a struggle to share their own. When they do open up, it’s awkward, and instead of sharing their feelings, they may unintentionally point out faults in others, making them appear insensitive and uncaring.
· Join us throughout our series on how the Imposter Syndrome shows up in the 16 MBTI types (or 8 Striving Styles). If you are not sure what your Striving Styles is, make sure to visit www.whoareyoumeanttobe.com to complete the assessment today! Remember, if you need help dealing with dysfunctions at work or in your personal life, reach out to us.