Unseen Barriers to Accountability Caused by Chaotic Leaders
Dismantling Dysfunction
These days it's increasingly common to hear leaders describe themselves as "a little ADHD," citing high energy and impulsive decisions as both a strength and a challenge in their professional lives. The same traits, often seen in some of the most successful organizational leaders, drive innovation and quick decision-making but can also lead to chaos, confusion, and increased insecurity among team members. In this episode, we’ll help listeners understand the complexities of chaotic leadership and its impact on accountability, exploring how the dynamic interplay between resilience,...
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Unseen Barriers to Accountability Caused by Over-Nurturing Leaders
Dismantling Dysfunction
Have you ever noticed how some teams don't hit their targets, despite having leaders who seem really supportive and caring? Or maybe you've seen situations where everyone seems happy, but the actual work results just aren't there? If these situations sound familiar, you're not alone, and we've got just the topic for you in our newest podcast episode - Unseen Barriers to Accountability Caused by Over-Nurturing Leaders. In this episode, we're taking a close look at a trend where leaders, in their effort to avoid conflict and keep everyone (including themselves) comfortable, might actually be...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability Caused by Leaders Who Disappear
Dismantling Dysfunction
Imagine your team is on a tight deadline, but when you reach out to your leader for crucial feedback, they're nowhere to be found. Their office is empty, their Teams status says 'Do Not Disturb,' and there's no response to emails, DMs, or Messenger. This scenario is all too familiar for many, reflecting a leadership gap where guidance and support are needed the most. In today's episode, we talk about the challenges posed by leaders who disappear, leaving their teams to navigate obstacles without any direction. During the podcast, we explore the impact of leaders who disappear on...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability Caused by Leaders Who Bully
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Picture this: you step into your workplace, a space where you spend most of your waking hours, only to face subtle threats, overt hostility, or being outright ignored by your leader. Instead of feeling supported, you have a leader who resorts to bullying behavior to either make themselves look good or to get things done. While some leaders believe behaviors like yelling and dressing you down for a minor mistake are a sign of strength, more often, it's about control and insecurity. So why does this happen, and why is it normal in many organizations? Usually, it's because of a lack of...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability: Shaming Employees into Poor Performance
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Have you ever seen a spark of creativity extinguished by a single dismissive remark from a leader? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of Dismantling Dysfunction, we talk about the unconscious shaming done by leaders and peers and reveal how this pervasive issue chips away at team morale and damages a culture of accountability. Imagine the chilling effect when a team member's bright idea is met with a "That's been tried before. Didn't you do your homework?" The room falls silent, the employee's spirit deflates, and a wave of discomfort spreads through the team. Join us as we discuss...
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Hidden Blockers to Accountability Caused by Narcissistic Leaders
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In the latest episode of "Dismantling Dysfunction," we delve into the significant impact of narcissistic leadership on workplace accountability. We highlight the unique challenges posed by leaders who exhibit narcissistic traits such as a grandiose sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy towards others. The discussion underscores how these characteristics lead to a toxic work environment, where credit hoarding, denial of mistakes, and gaslighting are prevalent. A key focus of the episode is the detrimental effect these leadership styles have on...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability | Part Six: Engaging for Growth
Dismantling Dysfunction
Leaders often miss crucial opportunities to engage meaningfully with their employees when reviewing performance, primarily due to a lack of knowledge or comfort in handling these sensitive discussions. Many leaders, uncertain about how to balance feedback with encouragement, may default to a more objective or critical approach. The discomfort leaders feel in navigating these conversations can lead to a transactional approach, where the review is treated as a checklist exercise rather than an opportunity for meaningful interaction. Reviewing performance is a pivotal moment where...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability | Part Five: Reviewing for Growth
Dismantling Dysfunction
Ever heard a leader say they skipped reviewing their employee performance because they “don’t have time” or because "Mercury was in retrograde"? While we all chuckle at the latter, there's an underlying truth we can't ignore - leaders often dance around performance evaluations, and in this episode, we unpack why. It's hard to believe, but some leaders sidestep evaluating their team's performance, opting out of what they view as a judgmental process. No clear expectations, no celebration of successes, no pinpointed development areas - just a pat on the back and a vague “good...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability | Part Four: Confronting for Realignment
Dismantling Dysfunction
Every leader has had to confront an employee's performance when a simple correction hasn't worked at some point in their career. It's part of the job. But when leaders mistake confrontation and consequences with punishment, they make the idea of a candid conversation even more daunting. Add to that the lack of training leaders receive to conduct an issue-resolution conversation about performance, and you get leaders going in the other direction – avoiding performance. Join us as we discuss how the lack of training leaders to confront performance leads to taking employee...
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Remedies for the Epidemic of Accountability - Part Three: Ensuring Alignment with Expectations
Dismantling Dysfunction
In the bustling corridors of a rapidly growing tech firm, CEO David found himself grappling with a dilemma. His teams were vibrant and intelligent, but something was amiss. Projects were lagging, and the quality wasn't consistent. At team meetings, David provided clear instructions, trusting that would suffice. Yet, when milestones were missed, he hesitated to step in, fearing confrontation. Does this sound familiar? In this podcast episode, we explore the challenges faced by leaders like David. Why do so many of us, despite our best intentions, shy away from setting clear benchmarks and...
info_outlineGet ready to dive into the captivating world of ISFPs - those super-creative, free-spirited individuals who dance to the beat of their own drum. These enchanting personalities seem to effortlessly waltz in and out of societal norms, choosing instead to carve out their own unique path. They're champions of their values and ideals, defenders of peace, and experts in evasion when conflicts loom. Add to that their deep-rooted loyalty and open-mindedness, and their embodiment of the 'live and let live' principle, and you've got some truly admirable individuals.
Now, let's turn a page and talk about the elephant in the room - Imposter Syndrome. Our creative, peace-loving ISFPs sometimes wrestle with this uninvited guest, especially given their unique style of communication. When words fail, they express through art, music, or movement, which can make them seem distant or unapproachable. This misunderstanding can make them feel like an outsider, triggering feelings of inadequacy, and causing them to question their own worth. The question is - what triggers these feelings and how can ISFPs navigate these hurdles?
Well, stay tuned! This new episode delves into the depths of ISFPs' Imposter Syndrome, exploring how their self-doubt, sensitivity to criticism, and subjective artistic pursuits fuel this feeling of being an imposter. How does their inner decision-making process contribute to the syndrome? Why do they often dismiss their own strengths and achievements? And, most importantly, how does it affect their personal and professional growth, stress levels, self-confidence, and relationships? Get ready to unravel all these mysteries and more in our deep dive into the heart of an ISFP!
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IN THIS EPISODE:
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[01:41] Episode Introduction
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[04:44] Why Does the ISFP Experience Imposter Syndrome?
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[10:36] Impact of Imposter Syndrome on ISFPs
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[24:58] Episode Gem
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[27:29] Episode Wrap Up
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
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ISFPs are known for their sensitivity and introspection. They frequently face moments of self-doubt and minimize their achievements because they seek perfection, especially in their self and creative expression. The subjective nature of their artistic pursuits can magnify these feelings of inadequacy.
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One factor contributing to ISFPs' Imposter Syndrome is their struggle with verbal communication, preferring other forms of expression like art, music, or movement. This leads to self-judgment and feelings of not being friendly or good enough, especially when others perceive them as distant or unapproachable. Their demeanor may be misunderstood, leaving them feeling like something is wrong with them.
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ISFPs may become hesitant to take on new challenges or explore unfamiliar territories, as they worry about the possibility of failure or being exposed as incompetent. This fear-based mindset can hinder their progress and prevent them from tapping into their true capabilities and exploring their full potential.
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Join us throughout our series on how the Imposter Syndrome shows up in the 16 MBTI types (or 8 Striving Styles). If you are not sure what your Striving Styles is, make sure to visit www.whoareyoumeanttobe.com to complete the assessment! Remember, if you need help dealing with dysfunctions at work or in your personal life, reach out to us.