How do you know when to help people?

Welcome to Season 3 of the Your Church Matters podcast. In this episode (97) I’m continuing a multi-episode series answering questions from a survey I did a few months back with my subscriber list.

 

Question: “There are so many people out to scam others so how do you know when to help people. I have heard different takes on this but no one wants to be taken so how do you handle this?”

 

 

First, the bad news

• There are indeed people who are out to scam.
• They will target Christians because they know:
  • We care deeply.
  • We look for the best in people and causes.
  • We tend not to really do our homework
  • We are generally unfocused.
  • We are easily manipulated by sad stories.
  • We are supposed to be gracious and forgiving.
• At some point, someone will take advantage of us.

 

The good news

• Those with legitimate needs and good causes far outnumber the scammers.
• It is much easier to find information than ever before.
• The fact that you are able to ask the question is an indication that God has blessed you with resources to help.
• God does not expect you to say "yes" to every request, but to display His character in every response.

Be strategic

• Clearly identify your missional priorities and strategies.
• Strengthen partnerships to multiply effective ministry.
• Prayerfully choose a primary focus ministry and review annually.
• Establish a budget (time, talent, money).
• Say "no" with grace because you are clear on your larger "yes."
• Leave room for "God moments."