Buyer Fit When it Comes to the Trades feat. Shem Doupe | Ep. 64
Release Date: 07/14/2025
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This week, we're pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to thrive as a BDO, with special guest and former business owner, Shem Doupe. Joined by hosts Emily Detor and Ryan Kroge, we dive into the gritty realities of business acquisition, mentorship, and standing out in a sea of suits.
If you're a new BDO, an aspiring business owner, or just curious about the future of the SBA landscape, you won't want to miss this insightful (and surprisingly funny) discussion on:
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From Cafe Dreams to SBA Machine: Shem's unconventional journey from starting (and selling) a non-franchise cafe to becoming a "laser-focused" BDO.
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The "Buyer's Market" Forecast: Why the next 12-18 months could be your golden opportunity to buy a business, thanks to dropping interest rates and a flood of retiring owners.
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The New SOP & Qualified Buyers: How recent SBA changes are weeding out the "tire kickers" and streamlining the process for serious entrepreneurs (finally!).
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Why "Passive Income" is a Myth: A stark warning from a former owner about the 100% commitment required for true business success.
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Skilled Trades Warning! Ryan Kroge's controversial take on why white-collar buyers will fail in blue-collar businesses – and why a license (and respect) is everything.
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Mentorship Matters: The profound impact of having a "Mary Soldano" in your corner to guide you through the complexities of the BDO role.
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Standing Out in a "Sea of Suits": Shem's brilliant (and "unprofessional") marketing strategy that turned him into "Laser Eyes" and made him a LinkedIn standout.
Plus, hear the hosts reminisce about retro tech, discuss why New York avoids SBA loans, and a lively debate about lending to white collar workers in blue collar businesses.
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