Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & Hacking Motivation for Singers

G'day Singer! 🎤

 In this episode, I almost didn't hit that "share" button because I was wrestling with a #vulnerabilityhangover.

You see, I've been in the trenches battling imposter syndrome and the relentless chatter of my inner critic these past weeks. Juggling multiple projects and being more visible online and onstage has a way of cranking up that inner noise.

But here's the thing: the critical mind is a constant companion wherever you are on your spiritual or singing journey. And that's perfectly fine.

Embracing it as a normal part of the human experience is the key. I like to think of it as akin to popping a satisfying blackhead (pardon the analogy). Let's be honest; there's something oddly gratifying about that!

In this episode, I bare it all and share a deep-seated story that's been on repeat in my subconscious, like an old VHS tape stuck on replay. It's the tale of "nobody likes me, I had no friends in high school" – cue Pauly Shore. You'd get that reference if you grew up with 90s trashy high school comedies.

I had to confront this narrative head-on because it was gaining steam and hindering my efforts to promote gigs on social media.

I dubbed it my personal ball and chain, something I needed to let go of because it was holding me back.

And then there's the narrative of not being "Greek Enough" for a musical project with my best mates called "Girl From Greece." 😆

We're launching officially next week, and it's a big deal! We have members of our Greek community, my family, a bouzouki player from Melbourne, and a guitarist from Cairns all attending.

But here's the twist—I can't speak Greek, at least not fluently enough for meaningful conversations or even asking where the toilet is.

So, I'll walk you through my process of conquering these narratives. I'll also spill the beans on some nifty "motivation hacking" tricks I've picked up from Brendon Burchard and Mel Robbins. Plus, I even use classroom behaviour management tactics on myself.

So, if you're grappling with kickstarting your projects, this episode is a treasure trove of tools and tips.

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Now, for some EXCITING news! We're hosting our first-ever Fearless Singer Jam this Sunday (note Jam, not Showcase).

After receiving numerous requests from talented souls wanting to perform at the showcase (which is exclusive to Fearless Singer members), we've decided to open up our performance opportunities to other singers who want to be part of our beautiful community.

 We've curated an AMAZING lineup, and you can check out all their profiles on Facebook and Instagram. If you're curious, join us at the Bearded Lady this Sunday, September 17th.

We kick off at 2 p.m., and it's just $10 at the door, with all proceeds going directly to the band. RSVP here: https://fb.me/e/3QWRt3Dbh

Let me know if you'd like to take the stage in the next one, sing your heart out, and be part of our magic!

And, of course, mark your calendars for Girl from Greece's debut concert next Saturday, September 23rd.

I'll sing in my great-grandparent’s language, share family stories, and jam with the incredible Katerini, Christina Xydi Lignou, and our stellar band. You can snag your tickets here: https://bit.ly/GirlfromGreece

 I absolutely love hearing from you! If any of this resonates with you or if you have your own strategies for coaching yourself through similar challenges, drop me a line.

Let's connect and share the love!

Lots of love, Mel Xx ❤️‍🔥🎵

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