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Black Women's Freedom is Non-Negotiable | Episode 101

My Favorite Life

Release Date: 04/07/2023

Leslé Honoré: The Warrior Writer show art Leslé Honoré: The Warrior Writer

My Favorite Life

Honoring Dynamic Women this month for Women’s History Month! Leslé Honoré, writer, CEO, and mother, first went viral when her poem spoke up for Black moms who lost their sons to gun violence.  Since then, she’s wielded her pen and passion to elevate a narrative that removes barriers for people of color, especially women, to live a life where they can thrive. When Kamala Harris made history as the first woman to assume office of Vice President of the United States, Leslé took her pen to social media and highlighted the road Madame Vice President, and so many women of color, must...

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Did you start the year with "Dry January"? Ebony K. English has been sober for NINE years and she's here to share how she started her journey and how she's keeping up with it.  It wasn't pretty or easy, but she kept going.  Whether you're just going sober for a month, or for however long you want, Ebony reminds us that we are worthy to bet on ourselves.  Learn more about Ebony below: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ebonykenglish/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EbonyKEnglish/ Books

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2024: My Redemption Song show art 2024: My Redemption Song

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2023 brought us some hard earned and learned lessons that we can take into the new year.  We don't need to be imprisoned by them, just informed!  With these experiences, we'll begin to redeem the time and opportunities we may have missed out on because of past.  In 2024, begin singing your redemption song.    Resources mentioned in this episode: . Sermon begins at 45:00 at 4:33.   

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The Gift of Grace show art The Gift of Grace

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Life has been lifiing.  The moments we need a kind word of encouragement, we should look no further than from ourselves.  When we offer ourself grace, we give it when we think we don’t deserve it. Even when we think we should be be doing something else, being someone else, looking or acting differently, we need grace for where we are today.  That is how we can be soft with ourselves.  That is how we can be the best versions of ourselves, if we're kind with who we are today.    I'm also sharing where I've been the last few months and what we can anticipate in the...

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Getting High to Get By show art Getting High to Get By

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October is National Substance Abuse Prevention Month and this episode features Enchelle Morris,  LCPC, CADC, a licensed clinical therapist, certified in substance abuse therapy.  Oftentimes we use substances- alcohol, weed, narcotics, even shopping-  to knock the edge off of reality. But there is a fine line between use and abuse.  This conversation is for anyone who may be struggling with their own use, are children of substance abusers, and want to seek a healthier relationship with their substance of choice.    By listening, you’ll learn: Often times, Black...

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Keep on Livin: Suicide Prevention Month show art Keep on Livin: Suicide Prevention Month

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September is Suicide Prevention Month and I'm sharing a topic that should get more atention than it does, especially for Black women.  And as always whether you identify as such, you'll get something from this episode.   For more information on suicide prevention, please visit NAMI.org In this episode, I speak with a woman who attempted to harm herself several times over her lifetime. What she found is that life is a journey, not a destination.  She learned that this life is meant to be experienced and time should not be rushed. With the right tools, she was empowered to...

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Black Women Beyond Affirmative Action show art Black Women Beyond Affirmative Action

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In November 2016, Black women knew that the impact of the 45th president’s decisions would have negative impacts on the entire country. It is why many of us, 96% of us, voted for Hilary Clinton. With our vote, we attempted to sound the alarm to the nation, and the world, that trouble was on the horizon.  Over the last year, our country has seen how even beyond 45’s presidency, destruction finds every aspect of our lives. Between the Supreme Court’s ruling of Roe v. Wade and now Students for Fair Admissions v. President of Harvard College, legal protections that once afforded Black...

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EPISODE 106: Be Choosy: Pattern of Selectivity show art EPISODE 106: Be Choosy: Pattern of Selectivity

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As hard as life is, we should be choosy about how we spend our days here on Earth.  We’ve hit a new season with summer, and made it to the halfway mark of the year.  Now’s a great time to not only assess the progress we’ve made, but whether the direction we’ve been moving in is exactly where we want to be.    As we make life defining decisions to create a life that makes us proud, we reserve the right to be selective in the relationships we engage, the jobs we take, the friends we keep, the lovers we love. The thoughts we have.    Pattern of selectivity is...

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Episode 105: Daddy's Lessons show art Episode 105: Daddy's Lessons

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The fathers we have are the fathers we need. The lessons they teach us about our worth, our value, our lovability, our selflessness, are critical to forming our own opinions about us and how we wish to show up in the world.  During this episode, Dara Munson, the first Black CEO of Family Focus, member of Alpha Kappa Alpha, Sorority, Incorporated, shares the lessons that her daddy taught her. Although her father could not support her the way she would have liked, he fathered her the best way he could.  And after years of “doing the work”, she realized that what he could offer was...

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I kissed a girl, and I liked that sh*t! show art I kissed a girl, and I liked that sh*t!

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This is a very special episode, as not only do I share what other may refer to as a “coming out” story, but I share how choosing to love who I want to love planted seeds of authenticity, helped me nurture self trust, strengthened my intuition, encouraged me to honor my most sacred asset- myself, and revolutionized my relationship with God.    Whether you identify as a woman, Black woman, or queer person, this episode will encourage you to consider the follow: Loving who you want to love is revolutionary. It sends a signal to the world that you are no longer willing to conform...

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In this episode, I am joined by Tiff Yvonne, CPA, is the CEO and Head of Strategy at Playmaker Solutions. Her passion work is rooted in her observations that though the women she worked with, and even herself, were committed to family, to community, they were burned out, and not living fulfilled easeful lives that they absolutely love. 

Tiff Yvonne elevates a few points for Black women for whom freedom is a non-negotiable:

  • Living a life that makes you proud can begin today, and it requires you to make a life defining decision that may shift your current relationships, dynamics, and way of life
  • Discern between what you believe and the borrowed beliefs of others. You may have to break the mold to save yourself and begin anew

  • It’s critical to reclaim the woman you were before your titles and to-dos. 

  • Self love is the by-product of setting boundaries with yourself, your children, and professional lives 

  • Life doesn't happen in a vacuum, one circumstance or experience will inform the next, it's your "life curriculum"
  • When we make life defining decisions, we can experience shame, fear, and doubt that can hinder our progress. Instead of trying to avoid these natural resistors, we should give them space, but put them in the passenger side as we move forward

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Resources Referenced in this Episode

Grab an autographed copy of my book Of All the Lives I've Lived: This is My Favorite: An Inspirational Memoir

One of Tiffany’s favorite books: 

The Answer to How is Yes x Peter https://www.peterblock.com/books/the-answer-to-how-is-yes-acting-on-what-matters/

 

 

Connect with me

Instagram @lotushalehill | Facebook @lotushalehill| MyFavoriteLife.co website

Connect with Tiff Yvonne on Instagram @sheplays_towin and her website


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