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When I Feel I'm Not Good Enough

Dream Brave

Release Date: 02/21/2025

The Ambition of a Quiet Life (with Ang Hern Shung) show art The Ambition of a Quiet Life (with Ang Hern Shung)

Dream Brave

Some risks look dramatic. Some look admirable. But some risks look like choosing a quieter, less self-promoting life in a world that rewards visibility. In this episode, Dr. Wai Jia interviews a good friend, Hern Shung. He chose a path that looked “behind” by the world’s standards, and shares honestly about the wrestle with comparison, ambition, recognition, and obedience over the years. Not all risk is loud. Sometimes the deeper risk is to live faithfully, quietly, and wholeheartedly before God—without needing to be seen. In this episode, we talk about: •⁠...

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$5 Became a 5-Million Cupcake Calling (with Mignon Francois) show art $5 Became a 5-Million Cupcake Calling (with Mignon Francois)

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What do you do when you only have $5…and six mouths to feed? In this powerful episode, Mignon Francois—founder of The Cupcake Collection and bestselling author of Made From Scratch—shares how she went from having no electricity and overwhelming debt to building a multi-million dollar cupcake business grounded in faith. 🧁 But this isn’t just a story about success. It’s about obedience and risk. From waking up at 3:17am to hear God’s voice… To saying yes to an opportunity she had no resources for… To building a thriving business that refuses to open on the Sabbath… Mignon...

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Choosing Surrender Over Success (with Jasmine Chong) show art Choosing Surrender Over Success (with Jasmine Chong)

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What if the very thing that made you successful was the very thing God asked you to lay on the altar? That’s exactly what happened to Jasmine Chong—founder of Lab Studios, one of Singapore’s most influential boutique fitness brands. After years of building a thriving yoga empire, Jasmine sensed a whisper. A stirring.  Not to grow bigger. Not to scale faster. But to surrender the yoga arm—her most profitable offering—to God.  The practice that once brought peace began to feel spiritually unsettling. The whispers of the Holy Spirit grew louder and more costly, until she did...

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The Long Spoons Parable: What It Teaches About Marriage, Calling & Risk (with Jason Min) show art The Long Spoons Parable: What It Teaches About Marriage, Calling & Risk (with Jason Min)

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What happens when God’s call on your life doesn’t just affect you, but the person you love most?   In this episode, Jason Min, lead pastor of Citizens Church in Los Angeles, shares a deeply honest and moving conversation about what it means to pursue God’s calling as a couple, not just as individuals.   From leaving behind an Ivy League–shaped future to stepping into music, entrepreneurship, and ultimately church planting, Jason’s life has been marked by bold risk. But he reveals that the greatest weight of those decisions was never financial or professional—it was...

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The Risk of Pursuing Love (with Cliff Tam) show art The Risk of Pursuing Love (with Cliff Tam)

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Skydiving is easy. Pursuing a girl? Now that’s terrifying. Before Cliff got me, he got rejected…a LOT. 😂  👉 Called a girl 20 times in 5 minutes. 👉 Lost another because her parents thought he’d “die too soon” after his transplant. 👉 Watched his best friend marry the girl he liked. 👉 And (OMG 🤯) I just found out, in this interview, that he once SPRINTED out of a symphony recital mid-show… ran down the street… bought roses… and surprised a girl at dinner to “define the relationship.” (Why am I only hearing this after 13 years of marriage?! 🌹🤣)...

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Color Outside the Lines (with Aiken Chia) show art Color Outside the Lines (with Aiken Chia)

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They told him he wasn’t good enough. Not smart enough for Pure Literature. Not good-looking enough for TV. Not fluent enough in Mandarin. Not enough. But instead of shrinking, Aiken Chia—now a well-known content creator—chose risk. In the first guest interview of Season 3: RISK (Episode 29), Aiken shares how every rejection became soil for something deeper, and how God rewrote his story when he dared to begin again. This is what happens when you dare to color outside the lines. 00:00 - Intro  01:50 - Aiken's background and upbringing  06:11 - School life and how it affects...

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The Illusion of Security show art The Illusion of Security

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What if the safest place isn’t comfort—but obedience? In this opening episode of a brand-new season called Risk, Dr Wai Jia explores what it truly means to live a life of faith-filled risk. Through real stories and hard-won lessons, this episode wrestles with the tension between fear and obedience—and why playing it safe can sometimes cost us more than stepping out. From small, trembling acts of trust to life-altering decisions, this conversation uncovers a powerful truth: faith doesn’t eliminate risk—it gives it purpose. In this episode, you’ll hear about: Why obedience often...

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Living Fully with Chronic Illness: An Ironman’s Defiant Hope (An Interview with Cliff Tam) show art Living Fully with Chronic Illness: An Ironman’s Defiant Hope (An Interview with Cliff Tam)

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If you live with chronic illness, you know how strange it feels to look fine on the outside—while fighting invisible battles within. Maybe you learn to smile through pain. Plan your days around fatigue. Wonder if you can do what someone else could easily say yes to.  Some days, you might ask yourself, “Does my chronic illness exclude me from pursuing my passion or limit my dreams?” 🎙️ In this Treasures of Darkness episode, Dr. Wai Jia sits down with her husband, Cliff Tam—a liver-cancer-and-transplant survivor, Ironman triathlete, missionary to some of Africa’s hardest...

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Standing Tall with Dwarfism (An Interview with Tim Muttoo) show art Standing Tall with Dwarfism (An Interview with Tim Muttoo)

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What the world sees as limitation, God calls opportunity. Born with dwarfism, Tim Muttoo never let his height define him. Instead, he chose to believe he was created with purpose and intentionality. When he married Anita in Canada, their wedding story went viral—over 100 million views worldwide—because their love defied expectations and showed the world what it truly means to stand tall in faith, courage, and love.  Inside this episode: Growing up with dwarfism and parents who saw only possibility Facing critics with the simple words: “Get to know me” Why everyone—visible or...

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Does Following God Make Me the Enemy's Target? (An Interview with Cameron Walcott) show art Does Following God Make Me the Enemy's Target? (An Interview with Cameron Walcott)

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Does following God put a target on your back for the enemy? When Pastor Cameron Walcott obeyed God and moved his family across the world to plant a church, tragedy struck. Just days before their launch, his 13-year-old son Caleb died in his sleep. After the previous episode with Ps. Cameron about losing Caleb, Dr. Wai Jia was haunted by deeper questions about spiritual warfare. So Ps. Cameron came back for another conversation. Here we wrestle with: How to discern if setbacks are spiritual warfare or God saying “no” Why the safest place is still in God’s will, not in playing it small...

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Do you often feel small and inadequate? Have you ever wondered how God could possibly do anything significant through someone as broken and flawed as you? God, why can’t I just be good enough to do something great in my lifetime? In this episode, Dr. Wai Jia share how God loves to use the weak and the lowly and why, if you’re feeling “not good enough” for His God-sized dreams for your life, that’s a good place to start.

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