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Why People Aren’t Advocating For You (Even If You’re Great at What You Do) - Episode 4

Being Relatable: Real Connections in Work, Life & Love

Release Date: 05/06/2025

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Being Relatable Episode 4: Why People Aren’t Advocating For You (Even If You’re Great at What You Do)

Let's face it! You’re talented, reliable, and putting in the work—but when opportunities arise, no one’s saying your name. This episode breaks down why that happens and what to do about it.

In Episode 4 of Being Relatable, we’re getting honest about what’s really behind the lack of advocacy so many high-achieving women experience. Being good at what you do isn’t the problem. The real issue? People aren’t clear on how to talk about you.

You’ll learn:

  • Why your work connections aren’t speaking up for you in meetings or referrals

  • The reason your friends can’t describe what you do—even if they love you

  • How to turn your partner into a powerful advocate for your goals

  • What to say (and how often) to make sure your name gets brought up when it matters

Whether you're navigating career growth, building community, or wanting your partner to better understand your work—this episode will help you bridge the communication gap that’s costing you visibility.

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
💼 Work (2:00–7:00) – Why vague messaging and inconsistent visibility is blocking you from advocates at work or in your business
💬 Life (7:00–11:00) – Why your circle can’t hype you up if they don’t know what you’re aiming for
💗 Love (11:00–14:00) – How to turn your partner into a true supporter of your mission—without making it feel like a pitch
📢 Take Action (14:00–16:00) – 3 simple steps to help people champion you more confidently

 

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