Ep 70: Lead Like a Woman: How to Trust Your Authority and Let Go of Logic
Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
Release Date: 07/28/2025
Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
🔗 Get on the email list for readings access: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this milestone 100th episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori explores a quiet but powerful midlife experience many women recognize yet rarely name: the ache for lives that were never lived. Inspired in part by the cultural response to Heated Rivalry and similar stories that awaken desire, connection, and intensity, Lori explores why many midlife women...
info_outlineMidlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
🔗 Access to Human Design readings in my email: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: Shane & Ilya's astro charts by Astro Katya: Show Summary: In this episode, Lori offers a bit of "HRT"—Heated Rivalry Therapy—for the soul. She dives into the cultural phenomenon of the Heated Rivalry series and explores why the love story between hockey rivals Shane and Ilya resonates so deeply with women, particularly those navigating midlife. By examining the Human Design charts of these...
info_outlineMidlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
🔗 Readings through the email list: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD & Astro Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this episode of Midlife by Design, Lori explores the North Node through both astrology and Human Design as a lens for understanding why midlife often feels disorienting, tender, and quietly energizing. The North Node is a trajectory and a growth edge that invites us toward what we are becoming, even when it feels unfamiliar. Lori shares why...
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🔗 Readings, Coaching, & more on my email list: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: Show Summary: Inspired by the Eras docuseries, Lori looks at Taylor Swift’s chart and tour through the lens of Human Design—and what it reveals about midlife awakening, reinvention, and embodiment. Lori explores how honoring every era of your life can become a powerful deconditioning practice in midlife. Using Taylor’s publicly available Human Design chart as a case study, this conversation...
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🔗 Planning by (Human) Design system/planner: 🔗 Intention-setting Workshop with Kim Horton: 🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: 🔗 Get your HD Chart: 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: Show Summary: Do you notice fewer people our age setting New Year's resolutions? Maybe it's because we've failed so many times... In this episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori offers a gentler (and far more effective) alternative to resolutions: heart-centered intentions, grounded in Human Design and the lived reality of midlife women. In this conversation, we explore: ...
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🔗 Planning by (Human) Design system/planner: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design 🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: As 2025 comes to a close, this short and intentional episode of Midlife by Human Design invites you to pause before rushing into the next year. Lori shares a curated set of reflective questions—pulled directly from the Planning by Human Design Planner—to...
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🔗 Planning by (Human) Design system: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design 🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: 🔗 Apply for coaching here: Show Summary: In this episode of Midlife by Human Design, Lori continues the conversation around planning by design by exploring one of the most overlooked elements of the Human Design chart: your Profile. Rather than treating profiles as personality labels, Lori reframes...
info_outlineMidlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
🔗 Get the Human Design planning system here: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design 🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Summary: In this preview-style episode of Midlife by Human Design, Lori introduces a brand-new way to plan your life using Human Design gate transits—think astrology forecasts, but far more precise. Focusing on the Sun’s movement through Gates 11, 10, 58, and 38, Lori walks...
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🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: 🔗 Get the Human Design planning system here: 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: 🔗 Apply for 1:1 coaching: Local workshops: 🔗 Winter Solstice: 12/21 in Waterbury 🔗 2026 Intention Setting by Design: 1/11 in Burlington: email me 🔗 Self-care by Design: 1/25 Summary: Learn how to plan your week by design instead of conditioning. Lori shares a gentler midlife-friendly approach using your energy type, authority, centers, and even gate transits to...
info_outlineMidlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this week’s episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori sits down with the luminous and deeply honest Megan Potter — a 3/5 Emotional Manifesting Generator whose 35 years have held enough twists, loss, reinvention, and spiritual unlearning to fill several lifetimes. Megan shares her journey from ministry to movie sets, from small-town Appalachia to a...
info_outlineDecision fatigue is real, especially in midlife when every choice feels like it carries the weight of your whole world. In this episode, Lori explores why even the most self-aware women still default to logic, people-pleasing, and perfectionism--and how Human Design can bring you back to embodied self-trust.
You’ll revisit your Authority (yep, that inner compass you keep meaning to follow), and get a practical, compassionate reminder of how to actually use it, even in the face of self-doubt, social pressure, or good girl conditioning. Plus, with the sun transiting Gate 31, you'll learn how true leadership in midlife has nothing to do with being loud or perfect and everything to do with living your truth out loud.
Whether you’re navigating career changes, parenting teens, or deciding what the hell to wear today, this is your permission slip to trust yourself fully.
In This Episode:
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What happens when you ignore your Authority
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A body-based reframe of “intuition” for each Human Design Authority type
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The sacred ripple effect of living your truth
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Gate 31's message for feminine leadership — and how to lead without trying
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A powerful practice to rebuild trust with your inner knowing
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An invitation to join the Midlife Magic Membership and live your Design in community
Links & Resources:
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🎧 Listen to Episode 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-2-finding-your-spark-in-midlife-how-understanding/id1754592104?i=1000662270628
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🧭 Get your free chart + resources: lorilisai.com/hd-chart
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🌿 Join the Midlife Magic Membership:
Your place to practice aligned decision-making, embody your Human Design, and lead from the inside out: lorilisai.com/midlife-magic-membership
Let’s Connect:
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✨ If this episode resonated, share it with a midlife woman who needs the reminder that her truth is her leadership.